Search by Name

Search by Name

FUNERAL HOME

Abbey Cremation Service - Rocky Hill

511 Brook Street

Rocky Hill, Connecticut

Matthew Bowen Obituary

Matthew David Bowen, age 59, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, February 11, 2025, in Danbury, Connecticut, holding the hand of a dear friend at the West Haven VA Medical Center. Born in Omaha, Nebraska, Matt lived in Illinois and Texas before moving to California with his mother. He graduated from South Bay High School and went on to serve in the U.S. Navy as an Electronics Warfare Petty Officer aboard the USS Mount Hood. In 1993, he founded New York Hudson Valley Computer Service Technician, a business he proudly operated until just before his passing. Matt had an adventurous spirit and a deep love for nature. His passion for exploration took him around the world, where he found joy in helping others. Above all else, he cherished his daughter, nieces, nephew, and their children. He was preceded in death by his mother, Beth Swanson, and father, John "Jack" Bowen. He is survived by his daughter Charlotte; ex-wife Erica; brothers Robert (Julie) Bowen and Randy (Judy) Lightfoot; nieces Amber (Randy, Jozef, Zander, Addi) Simonic and Angela (Ryan, Nicholas, Jonathan) Boyce, nephew Bradley (Trisha, Jack) Bowen, and countless close friends who will forever hold his memory dear. Matt will be cremated and laid to rest with full Navy military honors at Abraham Lincoln National Cemetery in Illinois this spring. Private celebrations of life will be held in New York and Illinois. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in his memory to . May those who knew him carry forward his curiosity, courage, and unwavering enthusiasm for life.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by WFSB on Feb. 14, 2025.

Memories and Condolences
for Matthew Bowen

Not sure what to say?





3 Entries

Chris & Gabe

June 21, 2025

We were terribly saddened to hear of Matt´s illness and passing. The last time that we saw him was when he and Erika were moving to New York. They stopped to see us (pups included) in Charlotte, NC. We did stay in touch. We ended up moving back to California and had a date to see him in August 2022, when he was here to see his mother. While we stayed in touch on and off, he never shared his illness with us and we don´t have Facebook, which seems to be the place for personal information. So this news took us by surprise. Dear, dear Matt ... we will miss hearing your voice, especially your laugh.
Our deepest condolences to Erika and Charlotte, and all the family.
The picture is one he sent me and his mom in August 2022.

Bob Bowen

February 20, 2025

Little Bro,

We will miss you for all time; yet your courage in the face of the Big-C will live on and strengthen us in life. You are truly the most courageous person I have ever known.

Love,
Your Big Brother

Roger Mc Kelvey

February 20, 2025

I never met Matt's family, but when our paths crossed professionally years ago....we just became friends it was easy to like Matt....he will be missed

Showing 1 - 3 of 3 results

Make a Donation
in Matthew Bowen's name

Memorial Events
for Matthew Bowen

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Abbey Cremation Service - Rocky Hill

511 Brook Street, Rocky Hill, CT 06067

How to support Matthew's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Matthew Bowen's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more