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Gary ERDMAN Obituary

Age 66 of Brainerd, MN Formerly of South St. Paul and Inver Grove Heights, MN, passed away peacefully, surrounded by his family on Thursday, December 7, 2023 Gary was born to Lawrence and Norma (Maus) Erdman on November 14, 1957 on the West Side of St. Paul. Gary was a devoted husband, father, grandfather who loved deeply and always prioritized family. As a cement mason, Gary was also dedicated to his work, owning & operating G.M.E Construction. Prior to retirement, his sons worked alongside him, honing their skills and specializing in the trade. He retired at the age of 62 and fulfilled his dream of living waterside in Brainerd, MN on North Long Lake. Gary will be lovingly remembered by his wife Jan; daughter Christina; sons Daniel, Michael, Matthew, Adam, and William; step-daughter Lauren Brush; step-sons Nicholas and Brian LeClair; and siblings, Wayne, Rhonda, Shelly, Bonnie, and Jan; and 14 beloved grandchildren. He is preceded in death by his parents Larry and Norma Erdman; sister Donna; and brother Rick. Gary was a gold-hearted guy who loved unconditionally. He will be dearly missed by all who knew him. A memorial service will take place on Thursday, December 14, 2023 at 11:30 AM with a visitation starting at 10:00 AM at Good Shepherd Lutheran Church, Inver Grove Heights, MN. A luncheon will follow the service at church.

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Published by Pioneer Press on Dec. 11, 2023.

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Katherine and Rodrick Pingree

December 13, 2023

So sorry to just get to know Gary and lose him so soon. Rest in peace brother. Much sympathy to all his families.

Sheri & Wayne H

December 12, 2023

Though we had only met Jan and Gary last year in Arizona it seemed like we´d had known them so much longer. Sharing time getting know one another at Rincon, helping with a little remodel on their park model and sharing music and making memories will be forever in our hearts. Rest in peace, Gary we will miss you! Sheri & Wayne H

Sandy Edstrom (Ewald)

December 11, 2023

Gary was one of my guy friends from high school and one of those people I've thought about through the years. My sympathy to his family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Theresa Erdman

December 11, 2023

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

KO

December 11, 2023

My deepest and most sincere condolences. May perpetual light shine upon him.

Theresa Leonard

December 10, 2023

Gary and Jan met at my house in August 2006. We played Catch Phrase. The rest is history! A good man. Prayers of comfort for his family and Jan.

Rich and Lynn Barry

December 10, 2023

Met Gary and Jan in Arizona and instantly felt like we have known them forever. Gary was such a kind hearted guy, we got together in Minnesota as he did not live very far from us. He will will be missed by all that knew him. He touched many hearts. Our prayers and hearts are with Jan and his family, know that he is in a better place and no longer suffering.

Julie Stoneberg mckissock

December 10, 2023

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Linda Dralle

December 10, 2023

Going on his date with Theresa. We went to Corral Drive-in.

Theresa Erdman

December 10, 2023

High School Friends ..his smile!

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7600 Cahill Ave. E, INVER GROVE, MN 55076

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7600 Cahill Ave. E, INVER GROVE, MN 55076

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