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Elizabeth Perry Obituary

Elizabeth "Betty" M. Perry Betty Perry, lifelong Sacramento resident, passed away Sunday, May 3, 2015. She was born on June 2, 1923, and exactly 21 years later, and with her newly minted BA from Cal, she was hired by the Sacramento City Schools. She taught at Kit Carson Jr. High for four years and, in 1948, began her long, rewarding career as a teacher and counselor at C.K. McClatchy High School. While at McClatchy she was an avid supporter of student activities, especially sports. She herself was an accomplished skier, swimmer, and golfer. In 1977 at age 54 she married her good friend and co-worker, Calvin Perry. With this marriage she inherited an instant family of 3 step children and 6 step grandchildren. She and Mr. Perry had only seven years together, but they were filled with much love and happiness and lots of travel. On the death of Mr. Perry in 1984, Betty entered the realm of volunteer service. She became active in the Older Women's League (OWL), and held many positions in OWL including president of the Sacramento chapter, president of OWL-CA, Coordinator of Education & Research, and Director of Public Policy. In addition to OWL she was active in many other advocacy groups. Betty was the only child of the late Robert John Riley and Leah Blackwell Riley. In addition to several cousins, she leaves 2 stepchildren: Richard Perry (Kitty) of Bodega Bay and Dorothy Perry Wensink (Pieter, deceased) of Wellesley, MA. She was predeceased by stepson Charles Perry. She leaves grandchildren Christopher Perry, Jessica Perry, and Thomas, Joseph, and Alan Wensink. She was predeceased by grandson David Perry. She also leaves great grandchildren Chaz and Carson Perry and Maggie, Charlie, Cindy, and Melanie Wensink. Services for Betty will be held on Friday, May 15, at 2:00 at St. Mary's Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to OWL-CA (OWL-CA General Fund, OWL Sacramento, PO Box 161646, Sacramento, CA 95816-1646) or to Health Access California either online or at Health Access Foundation, 1127 11th St., Suite 234, Sacramento, CA 95814.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee on May 13, 2015.

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Daniel Vincent (Danny) McCaughan

November 5, 2017

She was my second cousin, and a very lovely person. I first met her when I was 4 or 5 when she came on her first trip to Europe and we kept in touch all over the years since then. She visited with us in England in the 1970s, and I called on her when I could when I was in USA on business. Her work after retirement for the Senior community was wonderful. She will be much missed and always remembered.

Larry Johnson

May 20, 2015

I had the pleasure of being Betty's neighbor for 13 years. She was already deeply involved in advocacy for OWL when I bought my home next door in 1987. It was not unusual to see a TV van parked out front of her home for one of several interviews she gave over the years. An amazing woman, a wonderful neighbor and friend, an inspiration always! Much love to her and her family.

Meredith Minkler

May 16, 2015

Betty was a real inspiration to me and all of the California Senior Leaders -- a statewide group of extraordinary seniors for which she was chosen in the very first class in 2002. She inspired so many with her wisdom, commitment and compassion and will be greatly missed. My condolences to her family and many friends, Merry Minkler

May 15, 2015

Kathleen Lane. a co-volunteer with Betty in OWL. She contributed so much to the Organization and was greatly missed when unable to attend. May she rest in Peace!

Gale Spears

May 14, 2015

My deepest sympathy to Betty's family. Your mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, is the woman on whom I modeled my life. She was a sage, a mentor, a stitch, and what I liked most about Ms. Perry - she did not mince words. Her OWL group was instrumental in the early work around breast cancer detection and services in Sac and N. CA, and I had the great fortune to be in her circle during that time.
May her legacy of service, love, compassion, and toughness live in us all...forever.

Peggy (Akard) Dison

May 14, 2015

Betty was one of our bridesmaids when I married my husband, Stan Dison. We grew up together from Jr. Hi. on and I have called her every month since moving to Austin, TX. She visited us here. She was a great gal.

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