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David Frandsen Obituary

David "D.J." Frandsen Entered into rest Stanford, CA Sept. 16, 2004. Loving son of David and Tracie Frandsen of San Jose. Dear brother of Kevin Frandsen. Enthusiastic boyfriend of Helen Allrich. Devoted grandson of Vince and Anne Akrop, and Mildred Frandsen. Dearest nephew of Tom (wife Martha) Akrop, Clain (wife Sandy) and Dennis Frandsen (wife Linda) and numerous cousins and his loving pet dog, Woody.

A graduate of Bellarmine College Prep. and Santa Clara University. He coached tennis at Courtside and Leland High school, active in the basketball program at Santa Clara University for four yrs. Fought a courageous battle with cancer for 19 yrs. and lived each day with the motto "don't give up".

Friends are invited to attend a Funeral Mass Tues. Sept 21, 2004 at 7:00 p.m. (with Visitation starting at 5:30 p.m.) at Mission Church on the campus of Santa Clara University. A reception afterwards at Bellarmine College Prep., San Jose, Visitation Tues. starting from 1:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. at LIMA FAMILY SANTA CLARA, 466 N. Winchester (at Newhall) Santa Clara. Donations preferred to the Santa Clara University Athletic Dept., the Bellarmine College Prep. Athletic Dept., or the D.J. Frandsen Memorial Fund Recreational Therapy Child Life c/o Lucille Packard's Children's Hospital @ Stanford, 725 Welch Rd., Palo Alto, CA 94304.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Sep. 19, 2004.

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Conrad Franco

June 6, 2025

I'm sorry to hear this

The Rev. Bob & Jean Landreth

September 30, 2004

We remember you as a small boy growing up at St. Francis Church.Your struggle for life has been an inspiration to many. May God hold you in the "palm of his hand" and comfort your family in this time of great sadness.

caralee davis

September 29, 2004

To the Frandsen family..Oh... , we just heard... All our thoughts and prayers are with you.May God bless you with His peace...What a wonder DJ was! Our memories are of baseball and that wonderful , enthusiastic spirit that was DJ. Please know that DJ and you will be forever in our prayers.

the Davis family,Len,Caralee,Ryan, Aimee, and Becca..

Helen Allrich

September 23, 2004

Hi Sweetie,

I miss you so much all ready but I am so happy that you are not suffering anymore. You have touched so many lives and it has been so wonderful to be in your life. I love you now and forever.



Love Helen

John & Gail Passalacqua

September 21, 2004

Elsie Ignacio let us know this sad news today. We were just talking about you a few days ago, Tracie, so we guess someone on high was delivering us a message. We are so sorry for your loss. It appears that D.J. accomplished a lot in his life, however, and of that we are sure you are most proud!

Joyce, Glenn, Krissy & Kyle Woodruff

September 21, 2004

We were very sorry to hear of your loss and want to express our deepest & heartfelt sympathy. Kyle was very sorry to hear about D.J.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you....We wish there were words in this very difficult time to ease the pain.

Brad Moodie

September 20, 2004

DJ,



Your generosity and kindness were unmatched. Your positive attitude never broke. You were truly an amazing person. I’m going to miss you. God bless you and your family.

Megan and Nathan Fast

September 20, 2004

D.J., It was such an honor to know you. We wish your wonderful family and Helen peace. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. You will be so missed.

Bob Lobach

September 20, 2004

May God Bless, rest in peace...

Rick Della

September 20, 2004

DJ



I remember your dad when Willow Glen won the last of our many high school basketball grudge games. I remember Willow Glen then playing and winning CCS. And I remember your mom, a beautiful, radient bridesmaid at Randy and Shaunna's wonderful wedding. You are blessed to have such parents.



And I will always remember you.

Jamie Bond

September 20, 2004

I was only able to meet you in 115 degree weather, and even then you made a lasting impression. You showed stength and courage to everyone and taught us all to never give up. You will be missed.

Arinn Carlson

September 20, 2004

I have never had the pleasure of meeting you, but from the look of your family and friends I can tell you were an amazing person with a big heart. May God Bless you and your family.

Dana Brooks

September 20, 2004

D.J. had an amazing heart and will always be remembered for his stength and love for others. You will always hold a big place in my heart!

Sandy Chapman

September 19, 2004

D.J. was a wonderful inspiration for living life to the fullest. He will always be remembered bcause he was so well loved.

With deep sympathy,

Wayne and Sandy Chapman

Eduarda Francisco, familiesCAN

September 19, 2004

Hi DJ,

The brief times that I spent with you and Helen will remain in my heart for eternity. You were precious and I so admired your positive attitude in life. I am glad that you take with you the memory of going to the ER show because I know how much that meant to you. Take care in heaven, DJ, and I know I will see you and visit you when it comes to be my turn to be with God forever.

With lots of love. Forever. Eduarda

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