1964
2025
Terrie Lynn Neil, 61, passed away unexpectedly on Thursday, October 30, 2025. She was born in Hampton to Robert L. and Mary Neil.
Terrie loved being outdoors, camping and enjoyed music, especially old rock and roll. Terrie lived her life centered around love—love for her family, her friends, and the simple joy of being together. Whether it was family gatherings, quiet talks, or big celebrations, she found her greatest happiness in the company of those she held dear. Her warmth, laughter, and generous spirit touched everyone who knew her, and her memory will continue to bring people together, just as she always did.
Preceded in death by her father; and her sister, Dawn Marie Neil; she leaves to cherish her memory, her mother, Mary Neil; her soulmate, George Close; daughter Destine Dawn Sonnek (Michael); sons, Robert L. Neil, Chad Morgan Neil; twelve grandchildren; brother, Robert L. Neil, III (Lisa Baskill), stepson, Brandon Close; and one niece.
A funeral service will be held at 10 AM on Friday, November 7, 2025, at R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home, 245 S. Armistead Avenue, downtown Hampton with interment at Parklawn Memorial Park.
Memorials can be made to the American Lung Association in Terrie’s memory.
Vicki Franklin Flakowitz
November 24, 2025
I was so shocked when I saw this on Facebook tonight. I feel so bad for you Mary Lou and family. My heart goes out to all of you.I pray that God will be with you and give you strength to get through this very sad time.
Ronnie Roberts
November 7, 2025
My heart felt condolences to the family. Of this beautiful soul ❤ I was shocked to hear of her passing through a mutual friend on Facebook I haven't seen Terrie Neil in years I met her back in the early 80s when I was playing with a band in Buckroe Beach the amusement park was stills there we were neighbors when she lived on Smiley Road R.I.P. Terrie you will be missed
James (Jimmy) Young
November 6, 2025
Terrie you were always one of the brightest lights in my life. I will forever cherish your memory. You will be missed. Wish I had called you a couple weeks ago when you crossed my mind. You leave a wonderful legacy of love and life in your children Chad, Robert, and Destiny. 12 grandbabies! Wow. Rest in peace in Jesus arms,my love. I will see you again on the other side.
Jimmy Young ❤

Love is eternal
Clyde Mounts
November 6, 2025
George, family and friends. Robin and I were heartbroken hearing about Terrie's passing. When we visited the Surrystock events she was always happy and ready to rock. We will miss her.
Peace to you.
Robin and Clyde Mounts
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Your brother
November 6, 2025
My memories go back to when we were young and all at home together.I can still see that HAPPY little face,blond pigtales and mom's white go-go boots on the wrong feet,taking you and Dawn trick or treating,walking down the street to Shelton homes country fair,and Sunday mornings walking hand in hand with you and Dawnie to fordom babtist church.We will all be together again.I love you little sister,no more pain,no more tears no more suffering.
Shella Smith
November 5, 2025
I'll miss you my beautiful friend ❤
Tammy, Gail & Kathy Bryant
November 4, 2025
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Amy Ames
November 4, 2025
My condolences to George and family. Terrie will be missed by so many friends. She always had a good time and beautiful eyes and smile that was just radiant. Rest peacefully my friend as you watch over us
Lori Girard
November 4, 2025
I’m still in disbelief that you are gone my friend. Soooo, many memories through out the last 36 years I will hold in my heart and cherish forever.
I’m going to miss your quick wit and gorgeous smile!
My heart breaks for George and the family!
Shine on and spread those wings while you’re flying high baby!
Keep watch over all of us!
❤
Love,
Lori & Marshall
Kathy Paige
November 3, 2025
My heartfelt condolences to Terry Neil’s family. I’ll be keeping you all in my prayers. We’ll miss her beautiful face, that gorgeous smile, those bright eyes, and her sweet, and kind personality. Terry loved the outdoors, her family, and good old rock ’n’ roll. She loved music.She lived life with joy and love, and her light will continue to shine in all who knew her. May God wrap His loving arms around her family i, and friends and give them peace and comfort.
Rest in peace, beautiful soul
Lisa Coffey
November 3, 2025
God bless Terrie. She was so much fun to be around. I’m here for you, George. Prayers for all the family. Love, Lisa C.
Jack Adam
November 3, 2025
My heart is broken! Terrie you are missed!
Patricia Vera
November 3, 2025
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Anna
November 3, 2025
Terrie!! I’m deeply saddened that you had to leave for Heaven so soon. You were one of the few people who always had not only my back but you stood up for my son your “SJ”! You feared no one and you stood up for what was “right”. Girl you were so full of life always having huge “Surrystock” events to celebrate your birthday with huge crowds and heavy metal!! Thank you for giving your all for you were an angel. To her soulmate George Close, all she wanted was to see you smile. Her love for you was bigger than her personality!! George Todd and I will be here forever when you want or need anything!!
I’d like to tell your love Destiny that you never wanted to see any tears and that you loved her and your grandson with all your heart! If you need to talk I am here for you. She would do this for my son.To Terrie’s sons, I hope you know that your mom was so very proud of you both. There’s not enough time to spend with a mother and I’m so sorry you’re feeling this emptiness at such a young age.
Momma Neil she cherished you so much!! My heart breaks for you for Terrie hung in there and fought for her life for you and her family! God keep you all comforted now and always for your beloved is a beautiful young angel now.
Fly high with your daddy precious! We love you and miss so much!!
John McDougal
November 3, 2025
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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