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Joseph STADELMEYER Obituary

STADELMEYER - Joseph E. April 19, 1953-September 17, 2012, of Rock City Falls, NY, died unexpectedly Monday, September 17, 2012. He was 59. Born in Buffalo, he was a 1971 graduate of Williamsville South High School and served with the U.S. Marine Corps from 1971-1973. Returning from service, he earned an AS degree in Liberal Arts from ECC. He worked for Lewis Tree Service Inc. for more than 30 years. In his spare time he enjoyed hunting, alpine skiing and camping with his family. Mr. Stadelmeyer was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, son and brother. Surviving are his wife of 38 years, Cynthia (nee Garvey); a son, Joseph (angela); a daughter, Laura (Colin) O'Donnell; a granddaughter, Ava O'Donnell ; his mother, Ruth Berger; two brothers, Michael (Karen) and Thomas Stadelmeyer. The family will be present to receive friends Thursday and Friday 2-4 and 7-9 PM at BEACH-TUYN FUNERAL HOME INC., 5541 Main St. (at Cayuga Rd.) Williamsville. Friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial Saturday morning at 9:30 in Ss. Peter & Paul Church (Williamsvile). Please assemble at church. A trust fund will be set up for Mr. Stadelmeyer's grandchildren. Donations may be sent to 19 Trout Pond Rd., Porter Corners, NY 12859. Share online condolences at www.beachtuynfh.com
Published by Buffalo News from Sep. 20 to Sep. 21, 2012.

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October 3, 2012

Dear Cindy, I was so saddened to hear of Joe's tragic death. May your faith, family, friends and memories console you in your grief. Al and I are praying for you. Mary Jane Whittemore

Terri Cook

October 1, 2012

Cindy and Family,
So sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to your and yours.

Jim & Liane Wind

September 28, 2012

Dear Cindy, we are so saddened for your loss of Joe - a loss felt by all who were blessed to know him. May his perpetual smile help fill your heart with loving memories during these difficult days.

Tammy Van Kuren

September 27, 2012

Cindy - My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow for your family.

September 27, 2012

All of us at Saratoga Smiles are so extremely sorry to hear about Joe. He will be greatly missed. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Dr. Dennis and Team of Saratoga Smiles

Faye Mihuta

September 24, 2012

Cindy, I am so saddened by your loss. May you find comfort in knowing that many are grieving the loss of Joe with you. I am holding you in my heart and in my prayers.

Dennis Ostrowski

September 24, 2012

Dear Cindy and Family, We were so sorry to hear of the loss of Joe, we share your sadness. You are in our thoughts, hearts, and prayers.

Kristen Bobear

September 23, 2012

Cindy,

Please know that you are in my prayers. Take comfort in the fact that your entire Greenfield family is thinking of you at this difficult time.

wanda Richards

September 23, 2012

Joe will continue to watch over your family. Heartbroken for all of you

Larry Staszak

September 22, 2012

Dear Cindy, Joe & Laura,
We are shocked to learn of the passing of Joe. Although the years and life have taken us from the baseball & softball fields in West Seneca our memories of Joe & your family are still alive in our hearts. Joe had a perpetual smile on his face and we always enjoyed being together with you all back in the day. Our deepest condolences to you all.
Larry & Debbie Staszak

The Morber Family

September 22, 2012

How blessed we are to have you & Joe such an important part of our lives. We have experienced so much of our lives together & learned so much from you both. Joe will be in our hearts forever as will you & your family. Love & prayers, Bob, Kathy, Krissy, Steve & Bree. Xoxo

Barbara Wolfe Helpern 259-9048

September 22, 2012

Dear Family of Joey Stadelmyer (I can remember his mom calling him that)my deepest sympathies to all of you,loving wife and children, et al., but especially to Ruth ,his mom, whom I remember with much fondness from our early married years. My first husband ,Joe Wolfe was a cousin of Gene Stadelmyer;the four of us socialized often in those years.

Lauri Nair

September 21, 2012

Dear Cindy, Joe and Laurie,
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that all of you will find comfort and peace in the coming days. Please know that you are cared about and are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you all.

September 21, 2012

Dearest Cindy, Such unexpected News...Our hearts are with you and your family always.XOXO Love,Dick&Sue Struebing

Margaret (Marge) (Walter) Lampka

September 21, 2012

"Ruthie", Cindy and Family, So very sorry to hear this news. My heart goes out to all of you. Joe left us way too soon.

Martha George

September 21, 2012

My Dear Cindy.
I'm so sorry to heard the sad news about your beloved husband. I pray for you and your family so you will find the way on how to live on with this terrible tragedy.

Love & Peace.

Martha George.

September 20, 2012

Prayers to the entire family as you begin the difficult journey without Joe. May his spirit surround you always.
Love and peace to you all.
Patty Neal

Stuart Byrne

September 20, 2012

Dear Cindy & family,
Linda & I are deeply saddened to hear of Joe's sudden passing. May you find great comfort in the love & prayers of family and friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. If we can help in any way when you return, please call.
God Bless,
Sincerely,

Stu & Linda Byrne

Matthew Flanagan

September 20, 2012

Semper fi

AFS student Helena Ferreira

September 20, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Here down Colombia I am with you.

Paula Charters

September 20, 2012

Cindy & Family,
My sincere Condolences on the passing of Joe.

Anthony Monforte

September 20, 2012

R.i.P Joe thank you for always believeing in us hear at div 44r

Jim Guthrie

September 20, 2012

I am very sorry to hear of Joe's passing. I remember Joe from back in the day when I used to spend a lot of time hanging out with the Stadelmeyers and Ouchies. Joe was always a good guy. God Bless.

Tim and Lori Barry

September 20, 2012

We regret we can't mourn with you in person but we are with you in spirit and will be there for you when the memorials are over and you go on with your life. So sorry for your loss and ours.

Jocelyn (Jossie Alaimo) Kasper

September 20, 2012

Dear Cindy, I am so sorry to hear about Joe. I am grateful to have had him as our classmate throughout all our school years and will remember him fondly always. Much love to you and all your loved ones in the coming weeks and months.

John Gaulin

September 20, 2012

Cindy, we are all so saddened by this great loss. Know of our prayers and thoughts for you and your whole family from all the Gaulins. May God bless you all. Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord...

Renee & Mike McDonnell (Rutecki)

September 20, 2012

Dear Cindy,
You and Joe~ the true leaders of 'the gang.' First to fall in love, first to get married~ we all looked up to you both! Our hearts are broken. Joe was the kindest of all. A true gentleman. His bright smile would light up the room. He will be missed by all of us.

William Roche

September 20, 2012

We send our prayers and love to you all during these sad days. We feel so blessed to have Joe's friendship. You are all in our hearts.
Bill, Kari, Kyle, Kory, Kreig & Serena Roche

Steve and Cheryl Blake

September 20, 2012

Cindy, Laura and Joe: I can't tell you how sorry we are for this tragic loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult and sad time. RIP Joe.

September 20, 2012

Cindy~I am so sad for you and your family. From grammar school, drill team, high school and reunions...these are just a few of the many memories that will always be close to our hearts. May God comfort you.
Kathy (Schuller) Bucierka

Nadine Evans

September 20, 2012

Forever young.
such a horrible loss

Al Ouchie

September 20, 2012

Joe was the greatest guy I have ever known. I named my first-born son after him. Joe had a zest for life and was kind to everyone he met. Aunt Ruthie - we all love you dearly.

Sue (Wingerter) Monin

September 20, 2012

Ruth, Mike, Tom & family,
I am sooo sorry to hear of your loss. Playing in the neighborhood and back on Gordon or all crowded into the Rabel house are fond memories!!

September 20, 2012

OUR HEARTS ARE BROKEN...OUR PRAYERS WITH YOU...FROM FLORENCE RABEL AND DAUGHTERS SUSIE, ROBIN, KAREN AND KRISSY...

J. Brad and Ellie Ryan

September 20, 2012

There will forever be a hole in our hearts. We loved Joe and will miss him dearly

Wendy Dobbins

September 20, 2012

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

David Laubisch

September 20, 2012

No words can express the sadness that I feel for your loss, I will pray for your family and keep you in my thoughts.

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