Susan MASSEY Obituary

Suze - I will always have fond memories of our days at RPC and our lunchtime trips to The Bung Hole when you would say, 'Let's have one more for the road.' Oh, and the wine bar on the corner and... We had so much fun together when you and Bond lived in London. I still treasure the signed books from Anne Geddes you gave me when Georgia was born; so kind and thoughtful.

Sending all our love to Bond and your family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Rest in peace Suze, it was pleasure to have known you.

Love Amanda, Andy, Georgia and Lucy xx

Suze - Although we hadn't seen each other in many a year, our emails and phone 'catch ups' were epic! I loved to hear your cheerful, upbeat voice at the end of the line. Your optimism, generosity, warmth and love of life was infectious; the love for your family - immense and your love for Bond - immeasurable. You are a very special person Sue Massey - a glass have full kinda girl with a gift of looking on the brighter side of life. I've never known anybody like you my lovely friend and to think that you're 'gone' is too hard to bear - so, I'll say, until we meet again - save me a seat and order me a large one! God Bless, Trishx

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.

Our dearest Suze. We have so many wonderful memories of times we spent together. You lit up our lives so brightly. We particularly remember our wonderful times in London - the RPC days - but also our wonderful holiday visiting you in NZ. We fondly picture you behind your kitchen counter whipping up amazing meals for us all; it came so naturally to you. And not forgetting of course our holiday in Kefalonia, such wonderful memories and we are so sorry and devastated that we won't gather any more memories. You will always have a special place in our hearts and our thoughts go out to Bond, dear Bond, and of course your family. We will be thinking of you all on Saturday and hope you can all find comfort in each other and the special memories you all share of our wonderful Suze, taken from the world far too soon.

Take care of each other,

Love Ange and Steve xx

Oh my beautiful, generous friend!

I can still see your gorgeous face, hear the cheerful tone of your voice, and feel the warmth of your hug. Why did you have to leave so soon?
If I had known how precious our time was, I would have spoken out and told you just how much we love you! But you would have brushed aside the compliment as you do! - because that's the kind of gal you are. Never wanting to be the centre of attention, yet never too shy to speak your mind, to stand up for what you believe in, and to fight stoically for what your heart truly believes.

You are as fierce and as brave as a lion, generous and compassionate to a fault with charisma and confidence in bucket loads to challenge any injustice, unfairness or dishonesty. You have always been a straight shooter, never one to mince your words, and always speaking your truth from the heart.

The best people always take the longest time to get to know, and so our friendship has matured and deepened over the years. I've learnt a great deal about you, what makes you sad, what makes your heart sing and what makes you proud. Bond is your rock, the glue to your world, whom you love unconditionally and wholeheartedly. He's a true Pom, so his love for you is never showy. Yet we all know the expensive hot magenta food processor which sits proudly on your kitchen bench it shouts love and pride for his amazing partner. When stressed you cook, when you are happy you cook so your home, and your kitchen, (just like your heart) is always open and inviting. Your wonderful food is your way of expressing your creativity, but more importantly it's your special way of sharing your love with us all. I dream about your delicious club sandwiches!

You love your home, it's your castle, you are passionate about Panmure and all things real estate, yet Greece holds a special place in your heart. We've had many disagreements over your opinion that you aren't creative, but I will continue to shout it from the roof tops, you are a creative, talented person Sue Massey! Your renovated kitchen and bathroom are living proof of your creative flair, you succeeded my friend.

I also know just how important your family are to you, the love and pride you have for them all - for they provide the rhythm for your heart. I know how difficult it was to lose your Mum, the love you have for your Dad, the childhood you enjoyed, the adventures of boarding school and the strong work ethics you learnt from your parents. I never met your siblings and their extended families, but I know them all by name, because you talk about them often and always with much love, affection and pride.

I know their pain and grief will be immense, because you leave a huge chasam in their lives and our hearts, a pain that will never be dulled and an ache and longing which will never be repaired. But I know what you will say to us all, to buckle up, to get on with it, to battle on. I know your family will rally around Bond, they will protect, love and comfort him - holding him very tight, because they are an extension of you. They each carry the essence of your character and are indeed smaller pieces of you they embody the many wonderful things which make you our amazingly unique Sue.

Your light burnt so brightly, and life was always viewed in brilliant colour. So we will honour your life, safeguarding those treasured memories, we will cherish the joy you brought into our lives and we will turn our faces toward the sun, because that is what you would expect from us. To my beautiful friend - thank you for filling our lives with your warmth, with your laughter, your kindness and your strength. The most beautiful people in the world are the ones who show the unique courage to be themselves - You are a beautiful person Sue - I love you very much!

Arohanui Megan Flashman

Rest in peace Sue, it was a pleasure to have known such a lovely person.

Suze - I just worked out that you've been my friend for over 20 years - and an amazing friend. We had the BEST of times when you were still living in London, and we had such a wonderful holiday when we visited you in NZ - so many wonderful memories of all our amazingly fun times together. I am so hugely shocked, devastated and heartbroken. Sending all our love and most heartfelt sympathies to Bondie and your family. We will be thinking of you all on Saturday. Jules and Gav xxx

Words cannot express how we feel at this time. We feel your pain and wish to send loving thoughts your way. Sue will never be far away from us, but on the other side of the door. Speak to her and she will hear you.

We are in shock at the news of Sue's sudden death. We extend our deepest sympathy to Bond and Sue's family at this very sad time. We will miss catching up with you Sue on your regular two monthly visits. REST IN PEACE
Howard, Csilla, Jason and Adele
The team at Sawdens

Suzie q you were one of the originals from our old boarding school days. You may have left us but you will never ever be forgotten.

MASSEY, Sue Our workplace will never be the same. Sue's passing has demonstrated the fragility of life and how we should always take every opportunity. Sue, thank you for everything you have done for my business. My longest serving salesperson and a good friend. My thoughts are with your family at this most difficult time. You have left us, but you'll never be forgotten. Hayden and the Ray White on Lunn Avenue team.