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Robert Jordan "Baby Bird Pistol  RJ" Pliler obituary, Bonne terra, MO

Robert Pliler Obituary

Certainly! Let's add a splash of jest to RJ's final bow:

*Trumpet Fanfare*

Ladies and Gents, the stage is oddly quiet, for the man who turned life's every quip into a sonnet, Robert Jordan "RJ" Pliler, has exited stage left on April 18, 2024. Much to the dismay of his fans, RJ's long-running comedy act, which premiered to rave reviews on May 15, 1993, in the improvisational playground of Bartlesville, Oklahoma, has taken its final bow.

Promoted to 'Head Jester in the Sky,' RJ left behind a trail of tickled ribs and a collection of double entendres so witty they could outsmart a sphinx. A man of infinite jest, RJ's comedic narrative weaved through thirty acts without a single intermission-talk about dedication!

Cue the violins for RJ's fan-favorite supporting characters: his foremost critic and strongest proponent, mother Tonia Mansell; sisters Miranda and Ella, his loyal backup dancers in the conga line of comedy; brother Christopher, RJ's sparring partner in daily pun-offs; Bob Pliler Sr., the original king of the one-liners; step-maestro Gerald edington the unsuspecting straight man to RJ's jokes; and Grandma Sherry, already prepping for RJ's headlining gig in the hereafter.

Fancy RJ now: tickling the ivories on Cloud Nine's grand piano, coaxing giggles out of grumpy gatekeepers, and rewriting the book of Revelations to include a chapter on slapstick. He'd want us to wipe those mournful tears and replace them with snorts of glee as we echo his catchphrase, "Don't take life too seriously, you'll never pun your way out of it!"

No somber goodbyes for our RJ; we'll simply say, "Break a leg!" in the afterlife's endless encore. As sure as a chicken crossing the road leads to the other side (jokes), RJ's legacy will lead us to more chuckles and guffaws. He may have played his final punchline, but the memory of his comedic genius will put a smile on our faces until the stars wink out one by one. To RJ, the eternal funnyman-we salute you with the wave of our banana peels, the tip of our clown shoes, and the honk of our brightest red noses.
Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 26, 2024.

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Tonia I Mansell

March 9, 2026

Elo my son ur 2nd Ann is coming up I miss u so

Tonia I Mansell

July 30, 2025

I miss u love mom

Tonia mansell

June 16, 2025

BABYBIRD SON I MISS U SO MUCH WORDS CANT EXPRESS HOWW MUCHI WISH U WAS HERE GOD ONLY KNOW HOW MUCH I WOULD HV DONETO KEEP U HERE WITH ME RJ IT WAS LIKE A BAD DREAM I M LIKE THIS IS NOT HAPPENING I STIL TO THIS DAY THANK IM GOING YO WAKE UP N U will B HERE

Tonia I Mansell

May 11, 2025

Hey I know ur in heaven I still can't believe ur gone it's been a yr since u left me I'm so very sad n still angry n still I miss u so very much I know if u was here y ou would wish me happy mother day I wish I could get a sign from u I was thanking bot cing a medium bot u for some piece ur birthday is cumin up god I would give anything to hv u back again hazel is doing good she is growing like a weed li luv u n I will b get a tatoo in remember of u thank u for the mother son I so ache for ur voice ur phone anything from u remember I will never forget u

Tonia mansell

May 9, 2025

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April 21, 2025

Happy Easter son I luv u

Tonia I Mansell

April 21, 2025

Son I remember the first tum I saw ur face I was smiling from ear to son I remember the last tym I saw ur face tears coming from my eyes running running down into my ears how I how the first tym my eyes was filled with joy but the last tym there my eyes was filled with such sorrow sadness fear thar I would never c u again how my anxiety of life without its been a year n son is a lie I'm not good I'm. Not alive I'm dead insimde n out I'm hollow I'm so far away from u n earth I cnt imagine n still cnt that we r never gonna c each again rj I want u here

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Tonia I Mansell

January 1, 2025

Oh this is to legacy. Com I want to thank u for all of I done for me n my son I dnt if any one has every thank u but from the bottom of my heart n soul this site ur legacy. Com had brought so much joy to b able write to my son thank u for ur kind n understanding compassion during my time of pain if u guys had of not come to my aid to help pay for this memorial of son then I would not of had this site I so thankful for this site n u guys r wonderful ppl amen n God bless

Tonia I Mansell

January 1, 2025

My n ur angles wings part of me will always b with u son plz dnt worry honey I will never 4 get u I I know u r still with me but writing to u on here makes u closer to me I appreciate everything legacy has done for son the help put this obituary on legacy. Com they paid this for I'm so grateful for them

Tonia I Mansell

January 1, 2025

Merry Christmas this candlelight is for u in heaven

Tonia mansell

December 31, 2024

Tonia I Mansell

December 31, 2024

Well son would hv had a year left I miss u so much I just wish u wad here with me I cry n scream for all most every nite I wake up sating ur name hopping it was all a dream happy new year not for me I will b blue so much with u here with me I luv u rj

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December 4, 2024

A dear friend posted this and I know a lot of people who this could help. Hang on in there you will get through this I promise xxxx
"Dear Newly Bereaved Parent

This will likely be the hardest thing you´ll ever do. Survive this. And eventually, maybe even thrive again.

At times it will feel virtually impossible. You´ll wonder how a human being can survive such pain. You´ll learn you know how to defy the impossible. You did it from the moment your child´s heart stopped, and yours kept beating. You do it with every breath and step you take. You´re doing it now. And now. And now.

Your fingernails will become bloodied from clawing your way from the depths of despair. Your spirit will grow weary from fighting to survive. Your eyes will cry more tears than you ever thought possible. Your arms will ache an ache for which there aren´t words. For a lifetime.

Your heart will break into a million tiny pieces. You´ll wonder how it will ever mend again.

But with every morsel of unspeakable pain, there is love. An abundance of love. A love so strong, so powerful, it will buoy you. You will not drown.

Others will say things that are intended to be helpful, but aren´t. Take what is, leave what isn´t.

Still, you´ll meet others along the journey who will get it without ever saying a word. Kind souls who will breathe you back to life again. Let them.

Years down the road you´ll tire of hearing the same advice and clichés, over and over again. Advice you don´t want or need. Everyone will try to tell you how to best "fix" your broken heart. The trouble is, you don´t need fixing.

There is no fix for this.

Eventually you´ll learn how to carry the weight of this pain. At times it will crush you. At other times you´ll learn how to shoulder the burden with newfound grit and grace. Either way, you´ll learn how to bend with the weight of it.

It will not break you. Not entirely.

And even if you don´t believe in hope- not even a little- hope will light the way for you. At times you won´t realize your path is lit. The darkness feels all consuming when you´re in it. But know the light is there. Surrounding you now. And now. And now.

Know you´re being guided, by all of us who have survived this impossible hell. You may not hear us, or see us, but we are with you. Beside you. Hand in hand, heart to heart. Always. Just like your child still is.

Above all else, know that no one can save you but yourself. You are the heroine/hero of this sad story. You are the one who gets to decide how, and if, you´ll survive this. You are the one who will figure out a way to survive the sleepless nights, and the endless days. You are the one who will decide if and when you´ll find a purpose again that means something to you. You are the one who will choose how you´ll live with the pain. You are the one who will decide what you´ll to cling to, what will make your life worth living again. You, and only you, get to decide how you´ll survive.

No one else can do this for you.

People will speak of "closure," of "moving on," of "getting over it," of grief coming to an end. Smile kindly, and know, anyone who says these things hasn´t lived this thing called grief.

To lose a child is to lose the very heart and soul of you. It is overwhelmingly disorienting. It takes a long, long time to find yourself again. It takes a long time to grow new life around the chasm of such grave loss. It takes a long time to grow beauty from ashes.

There will always be a hole in your heart, the size and shape of your child. Your child is absolutely irreplaceable. Nothing will fill the void your child left. But your heart will grow bigger- beautifully bigger- around the empty space your child left behind.

The love and pain you carry for your precious child will be woven into every thread of your being. It will fuel you to do things you never dreamed you could do.

Eventually, you´ll figure out how to live for both of you. It will be beautiful, and it will be hard.
But, the love you two share will carry you through. You will spread this love everywhere you go.
Eventually, you´ll be able to see again. Eventually, you´ll find your way again. Eventually..... . I hope

Tonia I Mansell

December 3, 2024

"It was the night before Christmas and Santa was busy making his rounds
He was light on his feet making sure he didn't make a sound.

But he took notice that some homes didn't have that Christmas Glee.
so he decided to stop because he thought that just can't be.

He crept in a mommy's bedroom and stopped dead in his steps, as he saw a little angel hugging his mom as she slept

The little angel looked up and cried " oh Santa you are finally here!!
I've been waiting for you to help me let Mommy know I am near".

Santa picked up the wee angel and asked him " What can I do? I'm just a simple toy maker I can't make your mommy's dreams come true".

So the two of them sat and they sat for a while until the tiny angel jumped up and screamed with a smile.
"let's leave her a sign a beautiful sign from above,
let her know it's from me sent from heaven with love"!!!

So Santa dug and he dug deep, in that big glorious bag that was filled with lots of treats .

He pulled out a beautiful white feather that look like it was made out of snow.
And he thought such a beautiful sign that only a grieving mother would know.

He placed it on her nightstand and kissed the angel on his head.
Then placed him next to his mom as she slumbered in bed.

I think I'll stay here with Mommy and visit her in her dreams tonight,
She misses me dearly and needs to know I'm all right.

Santa made his way to his sled, And wiped a tear from his eye.
He fell to his knees and managed to cry.

Merry Christmas to all the grieving mothers across this big land.
And let it be known your angels are with you holding your hands...."

Tonia I Mansell

November 28, 2024

Blue heart for u son happy Thanksgiving son I miss I more more I miss u calling Eva holiday birthday sorry I couldn't save u or help ur last letter haunts me rj I know ur round at home ur lights cum on wen I stand beside ur urn I luv u son thinking of u Eva day I will never will forget u son I wish I would hv t a lkefc u more spent more tym with ill c you soon my luv

Tonia I Mansell

November 10, 2024

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October 28, 2024

Dear Mom,
I am still here. I am here for you when desperation creeps in between the spaces of our new realities. I am not gone. Every tear you shed, I collect it. I gather the rain, and to each drop I give life to the memories you and I have shared. I step into your dreams when you least expect it, and if you look hard enough, you can find me there.

Say my name. Remember me in the quiet moments. They will sustain you when the world intrudes and tries to drown out the sound of the conversations that you still have with me when you think no one else is listening. I am still here.

Mom, my soul is quiet now. It no longer yearns for the things my physical body needed to survive this particular battle. It took everything from me, and I know it took everything from you; you will never realize what that did to my spirit when I passed from that life into this one.

I know that you feel like you are losing your mind some days, but when you hear a heartbeat where none should exist, know that it is mine, keeping time with yours.

I am still here. I did exist. I left my mark upon this world, and I am at peace now.

Love,

Your Child

OCTOBER is #ChildLossAwareness month. #SayTheirNames. It´s the best gift you can do

Jason king

October 19, 2024

I say probably hitchhiking all the way to Colorado and back

Tonia I Mansell

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MOTHER AND SON

I would give my life to have you back, said his Mum

I know you would, said her son.

I cry each night for you, said his Mum And I catch all of your tears said her son I pray for the day that I can see you again, said his Mum

Close your eyes and you can see me, said her son........

You are the first person who loved me, and you are the first person I loved. You were always there when I needed you, and you always knew when I needed a hug.es I am here for you now, mum says her son

in your heart and in your soul. I did not take your heart with me instead I left mine with you to hole

Tonia mansell

August 15, 2024

A good read... THE DAY YOU LEFT
The day you left, the world turned gray,
A silent scream echoed, night and day.
A storm of sorrow swept through my soul, A piece of my heart, forever stole.
I search for answers in the void you left,
In memories, in whispers, in shadows bereft. Your laughter now a distant, haunting sound, A ghostly echo where love once was found.
The day you left, the sun refused to rise,
Tears fell like rain from clouded skies.
Every moment we shared, now tinged with pain, A puzzle with pieces that won't fit again.
I wonder why you felt so alone,
In a world where love could not be shown. I wish I´d seen beyond the brave facade, To the silent struggles that you fought so hard.
The day you left, my heart broke in two,
A chasm of grief that I stumbled through. Your smile, your touch, now memories dear, But none can erase the ache I bear.
I rage at the silence that took you away,
At the words unspoken, at the games we´d play. The "what ifs" and "if onlys" haunt my mind, In the echoes of a love that time can't rewind.
The day you left, the stars lost their light, A blanket of darkness covered the night. I hold onto fragments of you, so dear, In the hopes that your spirit is somehow near.
Your pain is over, your suffering ceased,
Yet here I am, with a sorrow that´s increased. The day you left, by your own hand, A riddle wrapped in the finest sand.
I miss you deeply, more than words can say, In every breath, in every day.
The day you left, you took part of me too, But I'll carry on, in honor of you.
Credit to Author (unknown)

Tonia mansell

August 15, 2024

I don't know if this is true,but l was told by a Dr..that you only dream about someone who has died,when you have come to turns with losing them.

Tonia I Mansell

August 4, 2024

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July 16, 2024

I gave birth to you, I loved you first, I love you still, I always have and always will.
-Your Momma

Tonia Mansell

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June 22, 2024

This is my son who I miss very much I cry for u every day I wear it necklace I got ur mother day present u got today so thank u it lovely I found it in ur belongings that they sent me I wish u was here to give it to me I luv u always

Tonia I Mansell

June 15, 2024

Elo son it's mama bird I hvnt talked to u in awhile I luv u n miss well alot of thangs had happen they kicked me off of Facebook cause I was o;sorbed with 7 dying that I guess I posted to many thangs idk I'm still grieving I DNT no that was wrong I well ur sister doesn't hv a court date no more she waiting for a bed date to go to Kansas City mo phys ward to get a more intense mental evaluation she excited so I DNT feel u RJ I DNT since u maybe cause I so busy n I never rest how your daddy and your sister Ella and your Aunt Peggy got the necklaces the day and your brother Christopher is in jail he's going back to prison and I showed your sister her necklace it's like tree of life and because she has a true life on her back she liked it she can have her when she gets back from Kansas City I'm sorry I haven't written in a while I guess I had too many poems on here and I can't talk to you to the investigator the actual investigator that investigated your death she's out of town so we'll see if they give me the runaround some more Monday and not much going on just have a ulcer real bad I'm stress I miss you sorry it's been so long since I been out here to write you or talk to you I'll try to relax and calm down and maybe you'll come to me and be able to talk to me I'm not so rattled maybe that's just relaxing I'm so busy stressed and things to take care of and things are going to get down and I love you okay now talk to you later I sure miss your phone calls hell I just miss you. I wish you would have came home alive sorry that happened to you I'm sorry someone had to take your life I did try to get you out of there I hope you know that my mind is too guilty over I feel like there's a lot of guilt I'm carrying around good night son mom Mama's got to go she didn't want her baby bird go fly love you it's funny how you did go fly

Tonia I Mansell

June 5, 2024

If only i knew you wouldn't always be here,
to hold, to be held, to always be near.
To listen, to call, to just know you are there,
when I had something I wanted to share.

If only I knew that one day you would go,
and there'd be more I'd want you to know.
A past and a future, a lost and a found.
If only I'd known you wouldn't be around.

If only I knew of the grief I would feel,
of the begging and hoping it wasn't real.
Of the years and times I took for granted.
Of the growing seeds that you planted.

If only I knew of a moments value,
that it cost nothing to be with you.
That the buried treasure was in my chest,
living proof you were the best.

I wear a crown of memories, on my head.
A love, a life, I now live instead.
I'll represent every piece of you.
I'll live and love my whole day's through.

If only! If Only! If only I had of known,
I'd have clung so tight to stop you going,
but I am lucky I live without regret
and proud of the memories I won't forget.

Tonia I Mansell

June 4, 2024

"To the living, I am gone,
To the sorrowful, I will never return,
To the angry, I was cheated,
But to the happy, I am at peace,
And to the faithful, I have never left.

I cannot speak, but I can listen.
I cannot be seen, but I can be heard.
So as you stand upon a shore gazing at a beautiful sea,
As you look upon a flower and admire its simplicity,
Remember me.

Remember me in your heart:
Your thoughts, and your memories,
Of the times we loved,
The times we cried,
The times we fought,
The times we laughed.
For if you always think of me, I will never have gone."

~Margaret Mead

Tonia I Mansell

June 4, 2024

"You will lose someone you can´t live without,and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn´t seal back up. And you come through. It´s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly-that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp."
Anne Lamott

Lyda Borelli, 1910.

Tonia mansell

June 4, 2024

Will there ever be a time when I can laugh at a joke without crying with the realization that I´ll never hear your beautiful laughter again?

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Tonia mansell

June 3, 2024

A LITTLE BIRD VISITED ME AND TOLD ME TO TELL YOU THIS:

That what you suffer for, and what you don't tell anyone, is going to happen.

That one day you will dance and laugh again without fear of breaking in the process.

That bad days don't last forever, that in the end the sun rises again and you will bloom again.

That the wound will close, you only see where one day it hurt too much.

That if you want to cry, do it, until you dry up, and then go to the sea to fill your soul with waves and sunsets or to a natural area to hug the trees and walk barefoot on the grass, on the earth.

That there will always be Love, you will always have a lot of Love in your Soul, regardless of rejections or bad love, since your heart is full of Self-Love and that is the most important thing.
Because everything passes, and it won't hurt forever.

That you should give yourself the opportunity to feel like you can't anymore, and then be surprised to realize that you could do it all.

That everything happens, this too shall pass, I promise, but you know how to fly, before you used to fly around the world, and I know that you have not forgotten how to do it, only that in this time your wings became heavy.

That although life has become difficult for you, it will only be for a while.

That no matter what you have lost, or who has left your life, you continue and will continue to fly.

That despite your mistakes fr
Melin

Tonia Mansell

June 2, 2024

A LITTLE BIRD VISITED ME AND TOLD ME TO TELL YOU THIS:

That what you suffer for, and what you don't tell anyone, is going to happen.

That one day you will dance and laugh again without fear of breaking in the process.

That bad days don't last forever, that in the end the sun rises again and you will bloom again.

That the wound will close, you only see where one day it hurt too much.

That if you want to cry, do it, until you dry up, and then go to the sea to fill your soul with waves and sunsets or to a natural area to hug the trees and walk barefoot on the grass, on the earth.

That there will always be Love, you will always have a lot of Love in your Soul, regardless of rejections or bad love, since your heart is full of Self-Love and that is the most important thing.
Because everything passes, and it won't hurt forever.

That you should give yourself the opportunity to feel like you can't anymore, and then be surprised to realize that you could do it all.

That everything happens, this too shall pass, I promise, but you know how to fly, before you used to fly around the world, and I know that you have not forgotten how to do it, only that in this time your wings became heavy.

That although life has become difficult for you, it will only be for a while.

That no matter what you have lost, or who has left your life, you continue and will continue to fly.

That despite your mistakes from which you have learned, you will manage to be shining and flying again

Bobby Pliler

June 2, 2024

How do I live without you?
Oh my love I do not.

You are with me from the moment I open my eyes
until they close.
And even after that,
on the plane of dreams where mortals and souls meet, you are with me still.

“I’ve not learned to live without you,
perhaps I never will,
the truth of the matter is,
you are always with me still.”

You walked such a blazing pathway, when your feet were on this earth, that your imprint lingers on and I place my own feet in your steps, one by one.

How do I live without you?
It’s really very simple.
I do not.

“I have yet to live without you,
perhaps I never will,
perhaps the key to grief is,
you are always with me still.

Bobby Mansell

June 1, 2024

I planned on
you being forever

You weren’t supposed
to leave so soon

Your absence casting shadow
over my days and
aching in my heart

Yet in the memories we shared
and the moments we treasured,
you live on

A light that shines brightly
in within me

Though you may have
departed from this world,
your spirit lingers in the beauty
that surrounds me
and the love that binds
us eternally

You always will be
forever etched in my soul

Until we meet again

Tonia I Mansell

June 1, 2024

I learned to
miss you quietly ...

I realized early on
that others were
uncomfortable
with my loss

They struggled to
cope with my grief

They were
afraid to be me

Not everyone
understands the weight
on your shoulders ...
Do we really want them
to walk in our shoes

Over time we realize that
grief is our companion now ,
walking beside us everyday

The pain will soften ,
and we carry their memory
with a smile instead of tears

We learn to
miss them quietly ...

And out loud

Chris Fraizer

June 1, 2024

My lonely place
is everywhere
you aren’t

Every corner of
my world felt empty

The silence that filled
the spaces where their
laughter once was is
a constant reminder
of their absence

Searching for them
in every room,
but they are not there

I understand the deep
ache of missing someone
who has passed away

The feeling of emptiness
can be overwhelming and
excruciating at times,
but remember that the
love and memories you shared
will always be with you

In the quiet moments
when you feel their
absence most,
try to find comfort
knowing that they are
watching over you,
guiding you, and
living on in your heart

Your lonely place
may seem infinite now,
but with time,
may you find comfort
in the warmth of
cherished memories and
the everlasting bond that
can never be
taken away

I carry my boys with me
wherever I go,
finding comfort in
knowing they are
never truly far away

Tonia Mansell

June 1, 2024

People keep telling me that
life goes on for me that’s the
hardest part

The world continues to turn,
the sun rises and sets,
and the days roll on

An endless cycle of going
through the motions
with that gaping void

I kept falling back,
not wanting to move forward
I felt I was betraying
my son’s memory

But in that darkness
I saw glimmers of light
In my loving friends,
the kindness of strangers ,
the warm sun,
or his favorite song

Through time I learned
there is a hidden strength
within all of us
A chance to heal,
to grow, and
to find new meaning

I wasn’t betraying my son
I was making him proud

Moving forward doesn’t
mean forgetting them,
it means carrying their
memory with you as
you continue to live

They are still
a part of our journey,
a guiding light, reminding
us to find strength in love
and to cherish every
moment you have

So for now take it
one breath at a time
With each step forward
it does become a little lighter

Until we meet aga

Tonia Mansell

June 1, 2024

After A Storm Comes Rainbows

After storms, come beautiful rainbows
And that's the way it's going to be for me
After living through this time of grief
Oneday my sons face I'll see!

More beautiful than I've ever seen him
Wearing a robe, the purest white
I'll be mesmerized by Heavens appearance
Never have I seen a more Glorious sight!

A beautiful rainbow we'll see, around God's throne
Everything my sons seeing, will last
He won't have to ever be afraid
Because the Lord has freed his past!

I just can't wait to meet him in Heaven
I know he's saving a place for me
Our bodies will be changed, and feel nothing but joy
That's the way God wants us to be!

No more sorrow, and no more pain
Never to feel heartache again
Just living in a world of beauty
A place that we've never been!

I'm looking so forward to seeing my loved ones
Knowing they're perfect in every way
I know there is a smile on their face
And I can't wait to see it someday!

Tonia Mansell

June 1, 2024

Tonia Mansell

June 1, 2024

You Don’t Just Lose Someone Once.

You don’t just lose someone once.
You lose them when you close your eyes at night.
And as you open them each morning.

You lose them throughout the day.
An unused coffee cup.
An empty chair.
A pair of boots no longer there.

You lose them as the sun sets.
And darkness closes in.
You lose them as you wonder why.
Staring at a star lit sky.

You lose them on the big days.
Anniversaries.
Birthdays.
Graduations.
Holidays.
Weddings.
And the regular days too.

You lose them in a song they used to sing.
The scent of their cologne.
A slice of their favorite pie.
You lose them in conversations you will never have.
And all the words unsaid.

You lose them in all the places they’ve been.
And all the places they longed to go.
You lose them in what could have been.
And all the dreams you shared.

You lose them as the seasons change.
The snow blows.
The flowers blossom.
The grass grows.
The leaves fall.

You lose them again and again.
Day after day.
Month after month.
Year after year.

You lose them as you pick up the broken pieces.
And begin your life anew.
You lose them when you realize.
This is your new reality.
They are never coming back.
No matter how much
You miss them or
Need them.
No matter how hard you pray.
They are gone.
And you must go on.
Alone.

Time marches on, carrying them further and further way.
You lose them as your hair whitens and your body bends with age.
Your memory fades.
And the details begin to blur.
Their face stares back at you from a faded photograph.
Someone you used to know.

You think you might have loved them once.
A long time ago.
Back then.
When you were whole.

You don’t just lose someone once.
You lose them every day.
Over and over again.
For the rest of your life.

: unknown

Tonia mansell

May 31, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 31, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 31, 2024

Lonnie berry Mansell

May 30, 2024

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

April Largrent

May 30, 2024

So handsome took from all of us way to early but we will walk side by side again someday . ❤Always in are hearts

Sheila Couffer

May 27, 2024

My first memory is when he came to live with me in sallisaw. He always made me laugh. He had a smile that brighten the room. He will be greatly missed.

Tonia mansell

May 25, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 25, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 25, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 25, 2024

Today is May 25 th2024 RJ I miss u so much I cry Eva tym Eva day there not a day goes by that I DNT thank of u where I DNT cry ppl DNT understand GMA ask me y I'm crying she doesn't get it im sad I can't except that ur God I cnt cum to delete my account at sercus I keep thanking that u will still call or cum walking thru the door RJ there so much I wanna do with u I look at all the memories on Facebook all the pic with ur sister but none of me n u RJ y did u leave me here on earth I luv u no one understand I want u heat I screamed ur name I scream for u like it's a bad dream tell Brandon hello n Mandy I said hello n tell Josh I miss him I hope u r heavenly at peace now I'm so sorry that u had a hard life son god bless u my son I so proud of u n I always was

Tonia mansell

May 20, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 20, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 20, 2024

Son I remember wen we lived in those apartments n that guy tried to push his way through the door n u came up n said u herd my mom n I was laughing so hard cause that said boy ur son is really tall the look on his face was like oh no I miss u every day I wish more of ur friends would write in here they said the would but they get busy I know hey ur sister will home soon n she can write bin ur wall

Tonia mansell

May 20, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 20, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 20, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 20, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 18, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 17, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 17, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 16, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 15, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 15, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 15, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 15, 2024

Ella de ann pliler

May 15, 2024

Gerald Edington

May 15, 2024

Bonnie decopsy

May 14, 2024

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Lonnie berry

May 14, 2024

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tonia mansell

May 14, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 14, 2024

Tonia mansell

May 12, 2024

Baby bird my son oh how I miss u today u never missed a holiday but today u will miss it for ur in heaven I will never forget it's been a month since u passed I never forget bot u son R. I P. RJ ROBERT PLILER I WILL ALWAYS LYV U I WAS PROUD OF U N TO CALL U MY SON I REMEMBER UR GOOFY LOOK U ALWAYS MADE ME LAUGH OUR PHONE CALLS WAS SO PRECIOUS LIFE ALWAYS SEEMS TO GET IN THE WAY SO I WISH me a happy mother day from u my heavenly angel I wish I could hv one my hug one more of u son I luv u God I wish u was here with me now if I could do anything to bring u back I would in a heart beat mamma bird luv het baby bird I know u had to fly

Tonia mansell mamma bird

May 12, 2024

MY BABY BIRD Son today is mother's Day n in 3 days it's will b ur 31st birthday u always called me every holiday every mother's day but not this year son I know u could wish happy mother's if u was here on earth I luv u I miss u so much RJ ur silly smile ur corny look u always mad me laugh it's been a month since u been gone I luv u always R. I. P. RJ PLILER MAMMA BIRD OUT SHE KNOWS HER Baby BIRD HAD TO FLY

Tonia mansell

May 12, 2024

Maria carder

May 7, 2024

Maria Carder
Yesterday
You will forever be with our sweet baby boy David and watching over our daughter Hazel I will miss you always

Peggy Stephenson

May 5, 2024

I reMember one night you were sleeping over and we All just went bed you called out "aunt Peggy" i went to you and got you a cup of milk. Ten minutes later was a repeat of "aunt Peggy" and another cup of milk. As i kissed you goodnight i said dont say "aunt Peggy" anymore ok? Its time to sleep. Ten minutes passed and you called "aunt Diane" to which the whole house busted ou laughing!!!! You were such a funny sweet boy!!!! I will miss you nephew!!! Love you aunt Peggy

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