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Paul Christopher DUDLEY

Paul Christopher DUDLEY obituary

Paul DUDLEY Obituary

DUDLEY, Paul Christopher. Born January 29, 1960. Passed away on October 10, 2021. "Suffice to say Paul Christopher Dudley didn't break the mould he shattered it like the great King Monkey!" He rode into our lives on the back of a black VW beetle and stole our mother away to the decadent Masquerade and Balls of 1990's Manurewa. "Go hard or go home" was a popular saying of the day which Paul shortened to a more concise "Go Hard!" and he did, work or play the man gave his all, always with a cheeky smile, A durry on his lips and an encouraging word. Geraldine and Paul married and our family grew Renée and Zakk joined Tennille, Daniel, Carleen and Matthew. Paul became PDiddy to us with his brothers John and Bernard and sisters Carolyn and Marian regular visitors. Music always filled the house, all types of music from Space Oddity to Ziggy Stardust, Aladdin Sane to the Berlin trilogy even the much maligned "Let's Dance" album getting a spin. The Lepers missed their Messiah but he had moved on to new challenges and adventures riding the winds of fortune and calamity with equal grit, determination and Lion Reds. The wheel turns, GK's Evelia, Zepher Step Gk's Kaiden, Jake, Te'Oranoa, Janessa, Caius, Rian, Amarah, Koen, Damian, Lexi, Arlo and Vincent emerge onto the stage and "Life" happens. Moving across the ditch I saw Paul less but whenever I did he was the same charismatic, straight up and good natured man that inspired my friends and who I grew up with. The "Dude" has gone and we miss him. The end of an era. Rest In Peace
Published by The New Zealand Herald from Oct. 13 to Oct. 16, 2021.

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B

December 2, 2024

I will never forget this funny, mischievous and lovingly protective man. From the early starts at the Schooner to the late night feeds at Li´l Abs; from push starting his numerous cars to being out-fished, out driven in golf and getting thrashed by him in a series of fitness tests......and then there were the Bowie concerts!

The highlight of many a week for us was just hanging out with Paul and Geraldine - chatting and listening to music while their beautiful whanau came and went. Great memories.

I think of Paul every day. "Wish you were here".

B

Carleen

June 20, 2024

Will forever be in our thoughts Heart's and prayers Till we all meet up in the Stars.
You were the Best Paul Love always Carleen.

Tee Bag

October 23, 2021

You told me on my birthday "I hope you are happy". I promise i will be xx

Paul and Damian in Manhawhai

Tennille Sinclair

October 18, 2021

I still can't believe I won't see you again.
It's surreal...dream like.
You came into my life as a child and showed me the meaning of a Father and provider. I was loved and have so many good memories.
It was so hard to buy you a birthday present as you literally wanted nothing ,but to provide for us. You always helped me with my homework and drove me to the train everyday in Papakura. As an adult when you would visit me you would get the tools out to fix things around my house.
I wish I was able to see you more before the end. But Paul I will see you when we meet again. Farewell and bliss be the travels on the spiral journey home, to the source.

Is it a kind of dream
Floating out on the tide
Following the river of death downstream
Oh, is it a dream?

For in that sleep of death what dreams may come When we have shuffled off this mortal coil,Must give us pause.

Love you Paul miss you so much xx

Kaiden

October 17, 2021

Even though I don't have alot of memories with you left, I know one thing and that is that the fundamentals of who you were will never leave me.
You were the definition of a 'cup of concrete'..
and the ingredients of the concrete were love, family and dedication. RIP Paul you will never be forgotten.

Zak Dudley

October 15, 2021

Standing above the crowd
He had a voice that was strong and loud
We'll miss him
We'll miss him

Renee

October 15, 2021

I miss you and I'm so upset that I'll never get to talk to you again

Geraldine

October 15, 2021

Shine on you crazy diamond
Come on you raver, you seer of visions
Come on you builder, you painter, you legend, and shine xx

Geraldine

October 15, 2021

Think of me sometimes
But not too much
Leave me in peace
And I shall leave you in peace
And while you live
Let your thoughts be with the living

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