Neil GRAHAM Obituary

It's been 9 years since His passing, we'll not forget his great effort in raising well being of many children including me in Rwanda, in 2014 he paid for our house roof and make possible that home we had electricity, Thank you Graham,I always wished I had communicated with his grand children whom he said to me was at may age ,my email: [email protected]

I still think of you all the time, the things you used to do and say. I miss you Grumps.

Neil was an amazing support to the people of Rwanda. His love of the sponsored children he sponsored for his grandchildren was very special. Those 15 children will always remember his kindness and interest in them all. It is our hope that his grandchildren will follow Neil's interest in the people of Africa.

Dear Helen , Tania , Dean , Greg and all the great family team I saw on Wednesday.
I forget who said , " not a long life but rich and deep ", impossible to forget the man .
All our love ,
The Twomey Family.

I always wondered how you got the nickname "Grumpy" because I only ever witnessed a big grin, that wicked twinkle in your eyes and a gentle manner. You were indeed a "rough diamond" with impeccable taste, a true intellect and a real gentleman. You will be so missed by so many.
Linda, Paul and Bailey
P.S. Gave Dougal a cuddle for you today x

Neil, I guess a celebration for the Wallabies winning the World Cup is out of the question now. Stephen and I are going to miss out raucous get togethers! Dougal will be missing you too mate. Hope you're resting well, all the best up there mate.

Neil, you were and still are an inspiration to me [and countless others].
You made a difference.

A sad loss,never forgotten,a true Kiwi Legend.

Neil
It was a honour to meet you and share in you're wicked but fun sense of humour.When anyone met you it left a lasting impression that was unforgettable. I am glad to have crossed paths with you in this lifetime Neil and to have met a very special and rare human being indeed.
Chris Knuth Brisbane

My dear dear friend ...so sad to hear this. So you will not come back to Rwanda after all? Grumpy, thanks for supporting World Vision education programs here in Rwanda. The vulnerable kids you suppourted and gave much hope for the future will miss you so much. Thanks for the visits here. Thanks for invitation to your beautiful home and your great spirit of hospitality. Will miss our heated discussions around Range Rovers! Fare thee well Grumpy! God bless you.

I have fond memories from around the world ,function days in sounds or driving around looking at junk shops ,old car trucks or the city. But best of all is a biscuit cuppa Dougal and you watching the rugby cheers grumps

Gone but not forgotten.
Stephen and I would like to thankyou for all that you have done for us over the last few years helping us achieve a goal of ours which is to be able to drive without your support we wouldn't of been able to get to where we are today. From the bottoms of our hearts we thankyou may you rest in peace. You will always be apart of our journey.

Dear Neil you refused to grow old. Your impact across the world for vulnerable children has had a lasting impact.

Rest In Peace Neil. I always enjoyed your wit. My thoughts are with you Deano, Selena and family.

Neil, it was such a pleasure to have known you. Your kindness and generosity has helped so many children in Rwanda. We will always be grateful for your support of your Rwandan grandchildren and the Koru project. My deepest condolences to all of your loved ones
- Belinda Robb, World Vision NZ

Grumps, sadly our trips back home will not be the same anymore. We will miss spending time discussing memories of the early days of M/F and the troubles you would get yourself into. Work Hard and Play Hard was you motto and there was certainly a lot of that in the formative years in Tuam St and Sonter Rd. Your inspiring words, leadership and values were the hallmarks of the man you became. We will forever have you in our hearts, rest easy Big Fella until we meet again - Malcolm & Denyce

So sad to hear of Neil Passing away. To his family our deepest sympathy. To his dear Brother John, Catherine Skippy and I send you all our love and thoughts and miss you heaps take care John all our love

Goodbye my friend

It seems like yesterday when we met although 34 years have past. The thing I remember about most was your work ethic and passion for your company & staff, comrades, fun, sport and supporting many a charity or enterprise. You were one of life's true champions. You won't be missed by most I believe just celebrated for just knowing you.

To the Graham family Mitch & I offer our condolences and sure you will rejoice in memories.

To the Graham family,

So sad to hear of Neil passing away. He touched so many peoples lives in so many wonderful ways. We'll just think of Grumpy - and smile.
Warmest thoughts, Nancy and Michael Wag (Larry)

Neil, you were a friend and inspiration to many. I will always value the support you provided to me , go well my friend.

John Cmberpatch

To The Graham Family,Neil was a great friend and business associate,he will be sadly missed. Ian Mc Drury

Cheers mate RIP ,
You were a truly inspirational man and it was a pleasure and a privilege to know you . Especially thank-you for all you did for Tim.
Love to all the family
Chris Alleyne

Dear Grumps.You were a wonderful Man who became a great part of my life.Mondays and Fridays will never be the same.I will miss our great talks and our laughs that we shared together.You took a piece of my heart when you passed away.Forever in my heart darling Grumps.Love to you.

Thinking of you all at this sad time.

With our deepest sympathy,
From
Graeme & Lorraine, Todd & Louisa
Craig & Sarah

To all the Graham family our deepest sympathy. Neil and I have been the best of friends in business and socially for approx. 40 years. It was nice to spend time with Neil earlier this year talking about the good old times. He was a great buddy, sorry to say goodbye.

(RAPID JACK) Jack & Patricia Wood
Gold Coast, Australia

Special friend ,special memories Neil.
Sorry cannot see you off but I'm sure it will be a great trip.with love and hugs to Helen, Tania,Dean , Greg , John ,and your amazing family.
Mark and Carol Arundel and our clan in Tauranga.

Ride free Neil and thank you for all you have accomplished
From Mainfreight Nelson Team

I was just lucky to marry his cousin. Every moment I had with Neil was memorable, whether working at Mainfreight, around his home or riding one of his cars, . His love for life will live on my memory. Just hard to believe we won't share another cuppa.

Goodbye my very special friend I will miss you very much I will never forget all your love and support.
Rest in peace
Lorraine Barns (Wellington)

Grumps you were a charismatic man with a heart of gold. You could sometimes be a grizzly bear or a teddy bear, whichever your big bear hugs will remain in my memories for the rest of my life. You provided us with a sense of belonging and security. You will be missed and remembered always.

A relaxed and can do chap was Neil. Great fun to be around during the rallying days. Always willing and generous. For me as part of the original Cowan and Allport team it was a real pleasure and motivational to be around Neil. Anyone knowing Neil would be
richer for the experience.

Words fail me to describe how you became my boss, friend,great mate,the fun times,be moter racing or rugby,you have left a big hole in this world,you were a true gentelman who gave his all,we are privilidged to have known you and your family
R I P big fella
Neville and Chris Wood

Neil you were a kind and caring person. You inspired everyone who had the joy of knowing you. I feel like the world is less without you in it. May our memories of you never diminish.

RIP Neil. I was so privileged to have met you. Such good humour and generosity of spirit.

You were an amazing man in every way. You will be sadly missed Neil.
My thoughts and sympathies are with your family.
Travel safely remarkable soul....

I love u pop

A true blue kiwi bloke. Another special star in the sky to shine down on your family and friends. You wil be missed.

Grumpy you will be sadly missed, and you leave behind a lasting impression, as you were a great man who touched so many people's life's, it was an absolute pleasure to have known you. You may be gone but you will never be forgotten

You were an amazing man Grumpy and I will miss our catch ups where we would just spend time laughing and enjoying the here and now. Rest easy my friend xx

Grumps thanks for the great help,advice and heaps of laughter even when we were supposed to be serious will be greatly missed.

Will be sadly missed for his great sense of humour and adventure.
All the very best all.

An inspirational human, smart businessman, adoring father and grandfather, good bloke. You fought hard all the way and grabbed life by the proverbials. The world was blessed to have you - enjoy your reward. To Neil's family - thank you for sharing him with us but know that he always made it very clear that you were 'first' in his world.

Neil you were a kind generous man , always with a smile, sad to think you have gone, we will treasure the memories....

Your sense of humour & your love of practical jokes were a great part of your makeup, as an astute businessman. We had a lot of fun in & out of work, & you will be sadly missed. ,.......Bob & Robin Jones.

GRUMPS to us you were an Inspirational leader, Close personal friend, Work colleague and employer, Mentor, Mate and Legend.Thanks for the past 21years of lifechanging experiences! Our lives are forever changed!
Much love Ron and mighty Dougal miss you heaps!