36 Entries
Tony Anderson
July 19, 2013
Mothers-in-law do get a bad press don't they? Some of us are lucky enough to not be given that inconvenience. I've not been so inconvenienced, but blessed to have had an essentially supportive mother-in-law who has taken sides from time to time; my side…
I have known Marie for only 27 years all of which time she has been afflicted with MS. I know it's not been plain sailing for everyone, but for me there's never been a negative moment. No complaint, but conversely, enquiry about my children and grand-children. What a sparkling example for all of us to be so cool in the face of such major adversity. Tony
Eileen Davey
July 19, 2013
I've fleeting memories of your Mum (& Dad) when we were still living up North. A couple of memories for now.
Watching you Mum washing your sister Mary's hair in the kitchen sink. Mary was laying on her back, along the bench. Her head was hanging over the edge of the sink & your Mum was washing her hair. I thought it was such a great thing to do!
I thought your Mum was very pretty & elegant. Always seemed calm & happy.
Eileen
Mum and Auntie Kathleen
July 19, 2013
Denie Kellett
July 18, 2013
I have blurred memories of Nan and Grandad in Mt Roskill, and going there and playing with Cassie and Nans perfumes with all the cousins, sitting out the back and watching Grandad have a smoke sitting on his chair in the sun, I always remember Nans perfume tartin pattern, Tweed I think it was called, reminds me of Nan, and also her wool dolls, the Grandma and Grandpa ones, going down and playing with them. Aunty Mary also gave me some of the old letters I'd written to Nan when I was little. Denie xx
Mum with Alice :-) xx
July 18, 2013
Jessica Housby
July 18, 2013
My beautiful nan, first one to hold me when I was born, sadly passed away yesterday. You are missed so much, cant quite believe you're gone. Love and thoughts with you always nan xxxx
Ange
July 18, 2013
These were the words I penned the night before Nan's funeral but didn't have the ability to say...
I have so many memories, some that are still so vivid, funny little things like going into Nan and Grandad's room at Denbeigh and playing all her music boxes at the same time - including the symphonia, it must have driven her nuts! But I never remember her growling. And who remembers the little wooden swivel stool in the lounge (with the holes on the seat)? You could lie across the top of it and spin around and around... what fun. Nan's only concern - that we might hurt ourselves. We never had google when we were kids let alone a computer a TV or herald delivery. We would phone Nan and Grandad who were always up to date with the News and they were our history buffs, as Nan continued to be right through her life.
Nan was always a good letter writer she would always respond and always show great interest in what was happening in our little lives. Banana Cake with Chocolate Butter Icing - Nan was a dab hand at making these. I can still recall her balancing on the bench with her sticks swinging on the bench nearby, and even at Green Bay when in a wheelchair she could still pull off this stunt- Yummy.
Nan always appreciated a sherry with Grandad at the end of day from the Old Masters Bottle (which I think Grandad used to get refilled up Dominion Road somewhere) She used to let us have a sip. I still appreciate a sip even now and I still buy the same one. Just not the same quantity.
As already mentioned below she loved big squishy cuddles and she was always grateful for any time spent with her no matter how long or short and she always had a hearing ear no matter how she was feeling.
My last words to her were "See you soon".
Resting peacefully now and in no pain.
Love you Nan,
Ange
Christine Bailey
July 18, 2013
As a child on weekends my parents took me to visit relations. Often we would spend time with Aunty Ruth in Glen Innes, Aunty Kathleen in Onehunga and Aunty Marie in Kingsway Ave.
My memories of Kingsway Ave were of endless cups of tea, a lttle dog, who bit me on the bottom, warmth, laughter and lots of teenagers. I remember the large magnolia tree in the front garden where I could easily fit my entire face inside.Even though we never had much in the way of material possessions I feel very rich in the warmth and love I felt as a child, surrounded by extended family with people as wonderful as Aunty Marie was.
Whenever I see the white magnolia tree flower, I think of her.
July 18, 2013
She was my Mum for 65 years. I am slowly getting used to the fact that when I think "Must ask Mum...she will know"...I have to wait...she is not available at the moment...I am looking forward to catching up...she will be back...when the troubles we have now will be long gone, and we will all be young and healthy...she will walk at leisure, feel the sand between her toes, skip through the garden in the rain, run through the long grass and ride horses at sunset. She will again enjoy the glory of the full moons, the Autumn colours, and the birdsong...Paradise will be fully restored...I can hardly wait...but ...I will be waiting...and we have forever to catch up when all is made new !
Mary Louise
P.S. Mary Louise you're such a tease,
..but always so helpful and ready to please,
So I forgive you...
Mummy x
...an entry in my autograph book... x
Kathleen Brassington
July 17, 2013
Marie and I were more than sisters. We shared our thoughts, experiences, clothes and views. She was my confidant and support, I will miss her greatly.
Marie will always remain in my heart and mind as the special person she was. The fond memories of her unyielding patience and drive to rebel against what might hold her down.
Kathleen
Paula Mason
July 17, 2013
I will always remember Auty Marie as a happy and loving person. Every time we met or, spoke she was full of enthusiasum for whatever you were doing or had to say. She tried to not let her ongoing illness get her down and look on the bright side of life.
I will miss her.
Paula
July 17, 2013
I remember Marie as a warm and giving person. Marie wasn't a huge part of my life...but she made me feel I was in hers every time we met..Although I didn't see her a lot, when I did she would always make me feel included with questions about my family, their well being and developments... she always remembered their names..... and was always interested in my life. She has built a tremendous legacy in her children and grandchildren with her infectious warmth and caring nature.A lovely Mum and Gran
There's a bit of magic in everything, and some loss to even things out.
Lou Reed
Rest well Marie
Bruce Hanley xx
Marilyn Anderson
July 16, 2013
For the purpose of this Guest Book I have rewritten these from my Facebook page.
For 45 years our Mum courageously battled the insidious thief, multiple sclerosis. On Sunday 16th June 2013 she must have decided enough was enough and left her disabled body behind. Without a grey hair in her head and hardly a line on her face she had the most amazing plucky spirit I have known and has been the leading inspirational heroine of my life.
I will miss her dreadfully but I have been blessed with two beautiful girls who are shining examples of her gentle warmth of character, purpose and passion for life.
Some memories to share –
Walking up the back of the farm with Mum, taking a picnic lunch to Dad during haymaking, fencing or other farm work.
Mum was great at keeping us entertained, even whilst she was hanging the washing on the line, I remember lying on the grass beside her, trying to spot the Skylark way, way above ;-) and to this day is still my favourite bird and stirs such a fond memory.
She used to draw pictures for us, make paper cut out dolls, cook special meals trying to coax a sick child to eat.
She kept our home spotless and clean, frequently washing curtains as Dad steam cleaned the walls and ceilings to rid the home of nicotine – five out of seven of us smoking, plus friends and relies!!
Being fair – Mum would insist on us saying sorry to each other after a dispute/fight and tried to instil in us to think kindly of others and not hurt their feelings.
Her acceptance of our assortment of friends, treating all equally with respect, they were always encouraged and welcomed to hang out at our place.
As a selfish child, we took things for granted but as an adult I have learnt the value of these lessons for which I am grateful.
Mum loved a good storm to freshen up and re-energise trees, grass and other plants etc. The night before her funeral was quite an amazing one and a very timely one too, followed by the shortest day and the beginning of winter, quite appropriate for her physical farewell.
When we were children living on the farm, Mum taught us to count between the lightning and the thunder to determine the whereabouts and direction of the storm along with a little ditty we would chorus –
The lightning flashed
The thunder crashed
The little pig was shaken
He put on his wig, danced a wee jig
And ran to save his bacon.
Not sure if the words are totally correct but no doubt other memories will be prompted :-) I think there is something about putting up his tail ;-/
We used to watch over the farm oohing and ahhing as we saw the occasional tree felled by the lightning but all shared the excitement of seeing the farm lit up during the pitch black night.
Thanks Mum, you will always be with me ?
Marilyn
July 9, 2013
Dearest Aunty Marie, thank you for all your wonderful love especially when us Baileys were kids. Many a happy time we spent at the farm. You had a special bond with Tony which I will never forget and he always remembered. Thank you for all your special love and support for my Mum Audrey over many years. There were times when I don't think we would have survived without you and Uncle Len. Thank you for making my life richer. Much love to your family who are missing you so much at this time. With love, Margy Baily and family
Simone Housby
June 24, 2013
I wish now I got to know you better, Nan. What a life you lived, and how loved you are! Thanks for producing this amazing family that has been so loving to me and Bailey. See you again when all is new.xx
Stephen Housby
June 23, 2013
Nan, I am really missing you, and your wonderful Hugs and kisses. There is not a day or night that goes by without tears. I remember the good times we had together as a family, and also the sleepovers that us grand kids used to have at your house. The lazy boy chair was the best place to sleep, so I made sure that I got there first. You were always there for me Nan, which I always appreciated. The number of times I came over to see you on my push bike with a problem, the problem was always solve. I remember the time when you had to use a wheelchair fulltime, and you just not want to do it. You were determined not to use it. You were a good strong fighter Nan. You never gave up. So as we look forward to the great hope of the resurrection, what a happy time it will be, seeing you running along without walking sticks or a wheelchair. As we await patiently for the fulfilment of this hope, rest peacefully Nan. Your oldest grandson. Steve
Our beautiful Nan, 9th April 1988
June 21, 2013
Elaine&Jim Warner
June 21, 2013
I Didnt get to meet Marie but have heard so many lovely stories about her from Alice and Gary!Thinking of Marilyn and family at this sad time! Sending condolences and much love from UK
Angela Frazer
June 21, 2013
Our Nan,
My special memories of you will be how you always had a hearing ear for my ramblings - no matter how trivial, and your squishy cuddles of which you were never the first to end. I love you Nan.
Sleep peacefully...
Your Ange
Gary Warner
June 20, 2013
Marie, what an incredible lady. I'm so glad that we got a chance to know each other. Your kind, loving nature, good humour and wit never ever seemed to falter. Your memory will be a constant source of inspiration to all that have known you. Love Gary xxx
June 20, 2013
Rest in peace our beloved Aunty Marie, so many treasured memories, Love Max and Margie xo
Liam Frazer
June 20, 2013
I'm missing you very much already! You were a really nice person and no-one will be as unique as you. You'll always be in my heart, and I'm really looking forward to the new system where we can be reunited again.
See you soon Nan,
From Liam
Chelsea Frazer
June 20, 2013
An anemone drawn specially for my beautiful Nan, I miss you heaps already.Lots of love from Chelsea
Alice Housby
June 20, 2013
Lovely nan, a true inspiration. Such warmth, strength & unconditional love for all...
Will carry you in my heart always,
rest peacefully now, love you.
Alice xox
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June 20, 2013
Love this photo of Nan - so kicked back and happy :o)
Juliet and Arden-Lee Hodgson
June 20, 2013
Our Nan...
She saw the silver lining in every cloud, of all her family she was very proud.
Unconditional love was felt by all, and there are many happy times that we recall.
They say a problem shared is a problem halved, so share we did and often laughed.
I vividly remember Nans strength shining through, when she said "don't be a door mat will you".
She also used to fondly recall, the story of Arden-Lee when he was just small(about 2):
He appeared at the bathroom door and handed her a tissue, for the drip on her nose that he thought was an issue...
And so their relationship grew, partners in crime were those two...
Whenever he fancied a day off school or to stay up late, she was on his side without debate...
He remembers raiding the carob button jar, and playing the snowman game on her peeuta (computer):0)
And right till the end he played guitar for Nan, who was without a doubt his number one fan.
These memories and many more, we will keep in our hearts forever more...
So Nan - we will miss you while you rest in peace, but this is not goodbye -just au revoir xxoo
Mary McFadden
June 19, 2013
In tribute to my very much loved Aunty Marie. I have so many happy memories from childhood & on through the years of a beautiful and very brave lady. My deepest sympathy to all your family. Much love from Mary xo
Greg Bailey
June 19, 2013
My Aunty Marie used to always make me feel welcome and part of her immediate family.
Whenever I would turn up to the Kellets' place, she would welcome me with a warm kiss and open arms, like the returning prodigal son.
She treated me like her own family.
Her calmness and smile always made me feel so calm and welcome, even though I was another mouth to feed and needing bed to sleep.
I cannot ever recall a situation where she was unhappy or angry with any of us. This blessed aunty was always calm, serene and wise.
I will always regard Marie as my favourite 'special' aunty. I will miss her angelic presence.
Rest in peace dear Aunty Marie. All my love to you, Greg xoxoxo
Michael Bailey
June 19, 2013
To A special Aunt, thank goodness you no
longer suffer, Love and thoughts for ever. Dianne,Michael,Tessa&John.
June 19, 2013
To All family and Friends,My Heart felt Sympathy for such wonderful woman as Marie, May you now Rest in Peace, All my love Dilly Hofmans.
June 19, 2013
Many years have passed
since we last met,
but our early friendship
I'll never forget.
With love,
Anne
Marilyn
June 19, 2013
Do Not Stand At My Grave
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep,
I am the thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glint on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle Autumn rain,
I am the shining star at night,
When you awake to the morning light,
My time has come, I am at rest,
I am the sunset in the West
I am the clouds that race above,
Where I watch over those I love.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there, I do not die,
So hear these words that here I say,
I am the love that guides your way.
To my Mum, you will always be just a thought away and forever in my heart. xx
Cher Prendergast
June 19, 2013
Lovely courageous lady RIP now - sadly missed - condolences to all the family
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