Harry LADD Obituary

Dear Ian, Cathy & Lilly,

I have only just heard the news of the loss of your beautiful Harry & have no words to express my sadness to you all. Sending my love & prayers to you always.
Love,
Donna

Dearest Harry,
Thinking of you all the time and especially on your Birthday. Always in our prayers.
All our love Robert and Granny Linda xxxx

Dearest Cathy, Ian and Lily;
Our deepest condolences for the passing of Harry. We in Wellington Hospital Ward 5 South nurses were so sad to hear this news. Lots of love and prayers for his soul and to you his dear family.
May his soul rest in peace.

Lots of love,
Sarita
Theresa
All of the RNs in Ward 5South

Dear Harry's family,

Early in the year of 2015, my classmates and I were preparing for the upcoming mountain biking excursion. Aside from being briefed with standard information about the trip, part of our preparation was to practice riding on a mountain bike itself, for which we assembled on the ovals of Rostrevor College to do so. It was at this place I remember my house teacher Mr. Lucas walking up to me and one of my mates. Alongside him was a young man. An impressively tall young man who, at the time, made the shorter Mr. Lucas look almost miniature in comparison. Me and my friend exchanged glances what could this be about? Our house teacher, alongside the new guy, came to me and my friend specifically. With a deep breath, he explained his purpose here the guy besides him was a new kid in our year level, and, considering we were all to be in the same house, he wanted us to help him settle in. To take him under our wing, show him the ropes, help him comfortably integrate into the lifestyle of Rostrevor College.
The new guy introduced himself to us as Harry Ladd, and we shook hands.

Right from the beginning, I noticed a buoyancy about him. He was not nervous, he was not shy, he did not seem scared about beginning his life at Rostrevor College. Quite the contrary, he in fact had an infectious grin plastered across his face. With a cheery voice, a booming laugh, and one of the most welcoming personalities I've ever had the pleasure of encountering, Harry immediately cemented himself as one of the friendliest persons I had ever met, after just days of having known him. Though most new kids that enter Rostrevor College late in their high schooling career often go unnoticed, Harry struck a chord with both the rest of the peers and the teachers. Despite being the new kid, there were moments where he appeared more comfortable and content than most people in the room; striking up conversations with students young and old, and engaging in friendly banter with the teacher.

As the years went, and my role of helping him integrate into the school had completed, Harry had not only become an established member of our little community, but also a valued friend of mine. Regrettably, we did not share any classes so our interactions were usually brief. But I recall him greeting every one of our conversations with his classic nod and timeless smile. As with everyone in our friend group, he joked, he bantered, he laughed, he got mad when he lost to us in a game of handball, he offered his opinion on whatever controversy that would surround the school at the time, he provided his insight regarding the latest film, song, tv show etc. He was our friend.
Outside the boundaries and restrictions of school is where we realised how mischievous he really was. The kind of young man to stray from the path of a hiking trail to admire the view, the kind to rip off his shirt and jump into a natural miniature waterfall lake, the kind to sneak alongside a bowling alley to try and cheat the game. Harry was a wild spirit, and despite struggling to keep up with him, being around him always transformed an ordinary moment into a memorable one. 2 weeks before he left to go to New Zealand, he was invited to a friend's formal 18th party. Harry was drinking wine, singing, jumping up and down on the dance floor, dancing with the rest of us. I remember, just before I left the party, glancing over and seeing Harry with that age-old grin, puffed out, tired, and yet still engaging in conversation with the rest of the boys. So much had changed, so much time had gone by and yet, he was exactly the same. It was the last time I saw him.
There are no words I can say to console your grief, no words that can define the magnitude of your loss. But I hope you take comfort in knowing that Harry was loved here in Adelaide. When the rest of my friends and I got together recently to discuss the passing of our friend, it was with joy we discovered that we had no bad memories with him. Every moment of reminiscence, every story we shared, was with a smile and a laugh. Harry had touched all our lives with his kindness, affable personality, and signature mischief.

I speak on behalf of my friends that were unable to contact you; he was a good man, and above all else, a good friend. We will treasure his memory for the remainder of our lives.
Rest in peace Harry Ladd.

With utmost sympathy,
Niranjan Srithar

Dear Cathy
Both Jo and I were extremely saddened to hear about Harry.
Our hearts go out to you and family.

Dear Cathy, Ian and Lilly,
Harry was an outstanding young man. He sat close to my teacher's desk in Religion for the whole of 2018. I affectionately knew him as "Laddy" (which I delivered in a thick Scottish accent - as per Pink Floyd's 'Brick in the Wall'). I can still remember his grin at this, as he was the only boy I used a nickname for. We often had a laugh together and he was always so respectful and positive. The whole Rostrevor College community is reeling at the loss of a real gentleman. May God bless his soul.

To Cathy, Ian and Lilly,

Words fail me, so many years have passed since my time teaching Harry and Lilly however I remember them both so very well. Harry always with a cheeky smile on his face offering up facts about animals/science/transport and being fiercely protective of his friends and Lilly.

I am sending huge love and strength to you all at this time. Harry will never be forgotten and always in our hearts.

Love Carly (was Miss Frame) xx

Dear Cathy, Ian and Lilly. So sorry to hear the devastating news about Harry. Praying that your faith will sustain you through the coming days, as you remember him, your precious son and brother, who is now with the Lord. With much love Liz xxx

Dear Cathy, Ian and Lilly,

We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Harry. Sending our love to you all. Thinking and praying for you during this difficult time.
Love Vince, Natasha, Teah and Ethan Pascale

So sorry to hear of the loss of Harry, our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. All our love Leigh and Sue.

Goodbye my darling Harry,
The greatest gift I received in this lifetime, was the blessing of twin beautiful children. How I shall miss those lovely long arms enveloping me in a strong hug. You have given me much joy and love. I will always ache for your presence, your gorgeous smile and gentle ways. I console myself knowing that you are indeed with our King and Saviour. We will be together again.
I LOVE YOU Harry James Ladd ❤❤❤❤Mum xx

Dear Cathy, Ian and Lilly
I am so sorry for the loss of such a kind and happy soul, who I was privileged to call a friend, I just would like to send my condolences at this time.

Dear Cathy, Ian and Lilly,

Today I am remembering happy times with Harry when I was younger and getting up to mischief with him! I remember leaving Dubai and having to say goodbye to him and coming back years later and him still being a great friend to me when playing rugby with him in the heat on Fridays.

I will miss him greatly, my thoughts and prayers are with you all, and Harry as well.

Will

Rest In Peace Harry.

Dearest Cathy, Ian and Lilly, I can not find the right words to convey how truly saddened we all are. We have the fondest and such lovely memories of Harry, his big smile and his kind soul. Harry was such a wonderful friend to Alex at Kings and in their year at DESC and will be truly missed. Please accept our deepest condolences, Andrew, Alex, Natasha and I will be thinking of you on this sad day. Sending you much love and prayers, Jacqueline Andrew Alex and Natasha

Dear Cathy, Ian and Lilly,
No words can describe how we felt when we heard the heartbreaking news. We want you to know that no matter how far we are from you, you have been in our thoughts and prayers every single day. We pray for dear Harry to rest in peace and for you to be strong during this difficult time. Please accept our deep and sincere condolences.
Dania, Fadi and Marc Dummar

Dear Cathy, Ian and Lilly,

We are remembering Harry, particularly today. A wonderful young man whose sense of fun brought joy to all who knew him.

We spent many happy times together when the children were younger and we will treasure all those great memories.

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Richard, Sian, Emily and William

Deepest condolences to the family. Harry was a valued and loved member of the Rostrevor community. Known and appreciated as a kind, compassionate and gentle man. We pray for God's comfort and strength at this time of loss.

Dear Cath, Ian and Lilly,

We understand that there is nothing that we can say that will take your pain away or even ease it at the moment. We want you all to know that we are thinking about you constantly with utter shock and sadness and will always be here for you if and when you need us.

So much love
Wade and Sonja xx

Dear Ian, Cathy and Lilly,

I have been numb thinking about what has happened and I just can't bear to think of what you have all gone through.

Harry was so kind and wonderful. He always made me smile. My regret was that I waited so long before I got the nerve to approach Harry. It seemed like everyone knew how much I liked Harry but him.

We had a short time together but they were all good, so I am glad for that. Nobody ever forgets the bonds and friendships of their final year of school and the time I spent with Harry will forever be a part of those memories for me.

With sympathy and great sadness

Sophie Roberts

To Cathy, Lilly and Ian,
What a kind, happy soul Harry was and how much joy he brought to those around him. I am so so sorry for your loss. I have so many fun memories with Harry from playing little big planet on the PS and going to the beach! Sending so much love and hugs for tomorrow❤

Dear Ian Cathy and Lilly . Our heartfelt condolences on the sad passing of Harry .Words seem so feeble in moments like these . Thinking of you all across the miles and sending you our prayers and love .
Love Ann Michael and Orla

Dear Mr and Mrs Ladd and Lilly - we are thinking of you at this desperately sad time. A great kid, with an even greater smile.
In deepest sympathy for your loss,
Andy Gibbs and all at Dubai English Speaking College.

Dear Ian, Cathy and Lilly, I am truly sorry to hear of the passing of your beautiful son/brother Harry. I had the pleasure of being his Pastoral Care teacher for 2 years and he showed just what an amazing young man he was. His peers at Rostrevor College will miss him deeply. I hope the celebration of Harry's life goes as well as it can tomorrow. I will be thinking of you all.
Regards,
Daniel.

Dear Ian and family,

I'm so sorry to hear of this sad news, deepest consolences. Just remember Harry will be looking down on you all everyday knowing his still here in all your hearts.

Lots of love

Kate Sleep (Sleepy)

Dearest Cathy, Ian and Lily,
We were so incredibly sad to hear about Harry. We remember him so fondly and Sara especially remembers how he was always so caring and supportive of her at primary school, holding her hand when she got upset in assemblies. Sending you all much love and light. Rest In Peace Harry.
Tala, Sara, Brian and Ali x

Dear Ian, Cathy and Lilly,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Sending you all my love and strength during this difficult time.

We will all be thinking of you on Friday and hope you find some peace in knowing that we are all thinking of you.

With love,

Marie Fantis

Dear Ian, Cathy & Lilly,

Harry's big heart and personality were contagious. Always with a ready smile and cheeky grin.

It was a pleasure to get to know him when he and Sophie became friends.

There will always be a place in the Roberts' family heart for Harry.

With heartfelt sympathy.
Meegan, Paul, Lochlan & Sophie Roberts

Terrible news. A boy who was so enthusiastic. A sad loss. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Dear Harry's Family,

Firstly, I would like to extend my condolences to you all. To say that I was shocked and completely saddened by Harry's passing is an understatement. I've had time to reminisce and think back to our friendship at and outside of Rostrevor, and the many memories and experiences that we shared during the majority of our years there. I will always remember Harry as the kind and carefree friend that you could confide in at any time. His confidence and charisma were just two of the many qualities he displayed. In all honesty, I have never met a friend so selfless and considerate before so far in my life. He was the type of friend that could make you laugh until you cried, but also a friend that supported and lent a hand to you during times of suffering. He never judged anybody and was genuinely a cheerful soul. I found it funny remembering all the times he would come to me for advice regarding girls when I had no experience either, but he really valued other peoples' opinions and ideas. Everything I suggested, he took on board with full interest. I can't ever recall a time when we ever had conflict or tension between us, he was seriously the easiest person anyone could get along with. Despite spending a lot of time together during school as he would filter between groups of friends, we hung out quite a bit outside of school too. A complete social butterfly, he never turned down the opportunity to hang out with anybody.

I remember the first time meeting him was during camp training day in Year 9 when he first started attending Rostrevor. He was the type of person that embodied what you see is what you get in that he didn't have a secret to hide and was open, honest and friendly right from the beginning and was eager to participate. We were assigned to the same camp training program which was mountain biking through hilly and (somewhat) dangerous terrains. During one of the treks, he slipped on his bike and fell over, causing a significant scrape on his leg. Some of us rushed over to see if he was okay, but he just sprung right up and immediately laughed and palmed the whole situation off to his clumsiness. His resilience and positivity radiated all the time and this would be one of the first instances I would see how quick he was at bouncing back from negative situations. Fast-forwarding a bit, I can confidently say January of 2018 was one of my favourite times of my life because I was hanging out with him and our friends a lot during this time. Harry and I often talked about how this was the final month we have to really celebrate our freedom during the holidays, so it was important for us to live it to our fullest. Our hike through Morialta Falls and the ice skating day were among my favourites that we did, because he and I spent a lot of time talking and grew closer as friends than ever before. Harry and I talked about our insecurities and fears, and just generally being real with each other on a deeper note. He never let his fears or insecurities get the better of him though and remained optimistic through any adversity. Formal was another highlight of our friendship, a great night spent together and enjoying the after-party we both attended too. That night is particularly special to me in his memory because we were able to take plenty of photos together and these are mementos I will cherish forever.

In saying that, I've spent time looking at photos of us from memorable occasions and just daily antics at school in Adelaide and thought I would share some of my favourites with you all on the next page.
I hope my photos and memories of Harry contained in this letter, will bring you some comfort.

Rest in Peace Harry Ladd.

Thinking of you all during this difficult time,

Oscar Parente

I am so deeply saddened to hear of Harry's passing. It was my privilege to have welcomed you all to the Rostrevor Community. My heart and loving thoughts are with you at this most difficult time. I pray that you find some strength and comfort knowing we are thinking of you.

Annemarie
Rostrevor College Enrolments Office

Dear Cathy, Ian and Lilly, we are all so sad to hear about lovely Harry. So very sorry. It was a joy to have known him. We will be thinking of you. Love from Nicola and Ian xxxx

Dear Harry, Lilly, Ian, Cathy
I have not been equipped to put into words the sadness I felt when I heard about Harry. My up most condolences to his family.
It is with great regret I didn't know Harry later in his life. None the less he was my best friend. For the three years I lived in Dubai, Harry was my best friend for all of it. We experienced so much life together, endless play dates, classrooms, sports fields, school discos, we even shared our 10th birthday party. That period of my life was painted so vividly with his smile, the fastest three years of my life.

In the book I was given when I left the school he wrote "... we will be always be best friends till the end. Nothing now shall ruin our friendship. No one shall stand in our way. I do hope you visit again! From your best friend - Harry"

Harry
I never came back to visit you I was blind to this blessing I was given. It came in the shape of a smiley kiwi and his family. I hope I get to pay you that visit some day. Wherever you are. Love you bud.

Dear Cathy, Ian and Lilly,
We are so sorry to hear about Harry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and we'll be thinking of you all on Friday.
Harry will always be with you ❤
Love and hugs friends from Dubai
Michelle, Andy, Matthew, Mark and James xx

Nurse Sharon and I have very fond memories of Harry and of course the lovely Ladd family who helped to make Kings' Dubai so successful. His legacy will live on in the determination, endeavours and the laughter of Kings' students.
Rest in peace Harry.

To Cathy, Ian and Lilly,
Sending you our most heartfelt condolences.
May all your beautiful and happy memories of Harry give you peace, and courage to continue without him.
Lots of love Debbie Smith and family xx

Dear Cathy, Ian and Lilly

It is with such a heavy heart that we say goodbye to a beautiful soul taken far too soon.

We will so miss Harry's cheeky smiles, infectious sparkle, kindness and extraordinary strength. We have shared so many memorable moments in both Dubai and New Zealand.

We can only hope to find comfort in these memories. In a life that whilst cut so cruelly short was lived so well in the company of a family who cared and loved so deeply.

Harry lives in you and in us. Forever missed and loved but never forgotten.

Dearest Ian, Cathy and Lilly,
Words cannot express the very sad loss of dearest wonderful son and our Grandson Harry.
Always in our thoughts and prayers even though we are so far away.
Will be thinking and praying for you all especially this Friday.
All our love
Robert and Granny Linda xxxx

Dear Ian and Family,

May care and love of those around you provide comfort and peace to get you through the days ahead.

My sincere condolences on the passing of your son Harry.

Tina Gold xxx

Ian, Cathy & Lilly words cannot express the loss you are all going through. Please accept my families sincere condolences

Tony Wall & Family

So shocked and heart broken to hear the terrible news of lovely funny, gentle Harry. All our love goes out to you Cathy, Ian and Lilly as we remember all the fabulous and precious times with you and your darling boy. Sending you strength and love. Emma, Iain, Jemima, Rosie and Ted Xx

Dearest Cathy, Ian, Lily and to all the family and friends of Harry,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all, at this extremely sad time.
With love from your friends from the Dubai days,
Ben and Emma Hitchcock + Abi & Tom (Twins)

Dear Cathy, Ian and Lilly, we are so very saddened to hear about Harry and send our heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Matthew has fond memories of Harry from the early days at Kings' Dubai and we will be thinking of you all on Friday and beyond.
With our love - Nick & Julie, Matthew, Abby & Pippa Jones

Dear Ian, Cathy and Lilly,
We are so deeply sorry about dear Harry. We will always remember his easy, mischievous smile, and happy-go-lucky nature: he was always such a caring and lovely young man to be around.
Our hearts are with you and we will be praying for you all on Friday.
All our love from
Anelisa, Julian and Serena
John 14:1-3

Dearest Cathy Ian and Lilly
We are so so sorry to hear of the passing of your beautiful son and brother Harry. Harry was such a kind considerate boy who touched everyones heart. His sense of fun and celebration was infectious to all those that had the pleasure of his company. He will be sorely missed. Our deepest condolences to you all at this very very sad time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. All our love Aileen Paul Patrick and Tara.

So very sad to hear of your terrible loss. Please accept our deepest condolences at this time. They were special times at Kings and I remember a very sweet and gentle boy who was kind to Joe when he first arrived. Sending prayers and love to Cathy, Ian and Lilly from Laura, Michael, Harriet and Joe Walton

Dear Ian and family
We are all saddened to hear of the loss of your beautiful boy Harry. Words however kind can't mend your heartache, but those who care for you share your grief and wish you comfort and peace of mind . My condolences.

To our dearest darling friends, Ian, Cathy and Lilly, Words cannot express the heartfelt sympathy we have for you.Harry, your beautiful face and amazing soul, will never be forgotten.Ian, Cathy and Lilly, may all the wonderful memories help to sustain you.Our thoughts and prayers are with you.Kim, Elsie, Benjamin and Daniel

Dearest Cathy, Ian and Lilly
We were heartbroken to hear the sad news of Harry.
Wonderful memories of him being such a witty, bright spark at Kings' and DESC as well as at the Hurricanes. Our hearts and thoughts go out to you all as you grieve, and especially on Friday. We hope you find some solace through your faith and your amazing family strength. Much love to you all, Astrid, Spencer, Freya and Sebastian xxx

Dearest Cathy, Ian & Lily
Shocked and sadden to hear the news of Harry.
Please accept our condolences and know we are here for you. Please don't hesitate to reach out at any time
Love Jude & Trev Oliver

Dear Cathy, Ian & Lilly,
We were heartbroken hearing about Harry and your loss. We have such good memories of him from Kings and the Hurricanes, he will be hugely missed by all that knew him.
Thinking of you all & especially on Friday. Sending much love and hugs. Kim, Richard & Jack xxx

So sorry to hear about the sad loss of Harry, we have fond memories of times spent with Harry during his time at Kings and playing rugby in Dubai.

Our deepest condolences to Cathy, Lilly and Ian, you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Love Paul Jane Ben and Jack Williams

Dear Cathy, Ian & Lily,
My sincere condolences for your loss.. May his soul rest in eternal peace. I pray for god to give you all the strength!
Love and hugs, Bansi (Dubai book/food club)

Cathy, Ian and Lily.
Our hearts ache for your loss. May God grant you comfort and peace at this sad time.
Much love from Dubai - Gill and Feras

For being the best raconteur in Kings Dubai (even aged 10), for being a tenacious rugby player with Hurricanes Dubai, and for being with Lilly the twin heart of the most wonderful family, you will be so sorely missed Harry. We send the deepest condolences to Cathy, Ian and Lilly. With all love, Jane, Neil, Elliot and Sam Crossley, Dubai xxxx

LADD, Harry. Very dear grandson of Annette Cavanagh, died in peace on October 22, 2019, supported throughout this time with a continuing outpouring of love and prayers. Loved dearly forever.

LADD, Harry James. Passed away peacefully surrounded by family on Tuesday 22 October 2019. To know Harry was a blessing, to lose him so young is a tragedy, loved and adored by his uncle James, auntie Adriana, and cousins Chloe and Theo.

LADD, Harry James. Born 21 February 2001 passed away in Auckland Hospital on Tuesday 22nd October 2019. Taken from us too soon, Harry will be greatly missed by his grandfather Paul Cavanagh and wife Christine. We remember his gentle spirit and cheeky humour with fondness and a deep sense of loss. We will treasure the memories of our times with Harry and his family in Australia and Dubai. Our hearts go out to Dad, Ian, Mum Cath and Harry's twin sister Lilly. May he rest in peace.

LADD, Harry James. Born February 21, 2001. Passed away on October 22, 2019. The stairs to heaven were lined with family past welcoming you home. You will be so missed especially those Harry hugs. Love you always and forever. Aunty Barbie, Uncle Dec and your adoring cousins Maggie and Isaac

LADD, Harry James. Born February 21, 2001. Passed away on October 22, 2019. An awesome friend, Nephew and cousin. Greatly loved by, and will be greatly missed by Uncle Joe, Aunty Kirsten, and cousins Zach and George. We will carry you in our hearts and memories always.

LADD, Harry James. Our beautiful cousin and nephew. Our hearts are heavy with the tragedy of your passing. We will carry you in our hearts until together in eternity in His presence. John, Gem, Adriel and Natania.

LADD, Harry James. Passed away peacefully in Auckland Hospital, Tuesday 22 October 2019 after a courageous battle with an aggressive disease. Loved and missed enormously by Aunty Lizzie, Uncle Damon and cousins Ben and Gracie. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.

LADD, Harry James. Passed away on Tuesday 22 October 2019. Much loved by your family, a wonderful nephew of Sue and Peter and cousin of Mia and Max in Sydney, and loved grandson of GranDon and NanaBetty in Auckland. All who knew you loved you. You fought against your illness so strongly and bravely. You will never be forgotten and will live in our hearts forever. God bless you Harry.