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Gerard Donn DE SILVA

1939 - 2023

BORN

1939

DIED

2023

Gerard DE SILVA Obituary

DE SILVA, Gerard Donn (Donn). 13/11/1939 - 7/11/2023 Died peacefully at his home surrounded by his loving family. Dearly beloved husband of Marieke and much-loved father and father-in-law of Milton and Karen, Jeremy and Denise, Russell and Anita, Brendon and Jane, Gareth and Ange, and Donnella. Proud grandfather and great-grandfather of Melissa and Robbie, Catherine and Greg, Niamh, Georgia, Stephanie, John Paul, Lovina, Belle, Quinn, Katya, Sophia; Alex, Noah, Delta, Dallas; and loving guide to their partners. Long-term friend of Patricia and respected brother, brother-in- law, and uncle of the de Silva and Spruijt families. Reunited with Gerard and Jean de Silva, and brothers Roderic and Kerry. A service will be held 2pm Wednesday 15th November at Allely Estate, Kumeu. In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to Doctors Without Borders. All communications to Hibiscus Funeral Services. To view the livestream of the service or leave a tribute go to https://www. dreamproductions.co. nz/desilva



Published by The New Zealand Herald from Nov. 10 to Nov. 13, 2023.

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Janet Meijler

November 20, 2023

TIME TO SAY GOODBYE.
The music of Vivaldi filled the venue. Donn, your coffin was slowly been carried down the aisle by your 5 Son's and daughter. All dressed in Rugby tops with the words *Donn one* on the back . Your coffin was placed in front of the stage A very tasteful coffin I thought, of which the top was adorned with the most exquisite arrangement of delicate roses . The time came for your 5 precious son's and daughter to ascend the stage . There was an emotional out pouring of memories, love, grief, and loss from each one of them for you Donn. As each emotion cascaded down onto your coffin I half imagined the lid of your coffin rising and you sitting up saying "I can't leave you all my darling one's"
But the lid remained closed and your service continued. I will carry my love and my memories of you in my heart. Until we meet again.
Your loving sister Janet.

NICOLETTE

November 19, 2023

Gerard Donn de Silva , my memory of my caring eldest brother Donn who toiled in our large vege garden as a young man providing our family with delicious vegetables and planting numerous fruit trees with his loving dog Nipper at his side. In his latter years we had many a precious conversation on the phone. Always love you bro and will catch up with you one day and chat forever n ever. To all of Donn' s dear family all of you are in our loving thoughts n prayers. Nicolette n Neville

Louisa Meÿler

November 16, 2023

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Marie Green

November 16, 2023

Marieke and the de Silva family. Our sincere condolences to you all. Marie and Neil Green. Sister and brother in law of Vin.

Aoife Meijler

November 15, 2023

The Meijler Family, nephew Anton and wife Aoife, wish to pass our condolences to you and whanau at this time. Sending love and sympathy.

Ferry Tromp

November 15, 2023

Dear family De Silva, we add our sincere condolences from the other side of the world where in Holland our nightly autumn rains join your tears of sorrow in remembrance of a true gentle man, whose warm hospitality we were lucky enough to experience several times. May Donn rest in peace, ferry and trudi tromp, bloemendaal, the netherlands.

Otto Spruyt

November 15, 2023

Vale, Donn. Treasured memories always of your wit, advice, and charm. One of life's true gents, an absolute pleasure to have known you, mate. You fought the big fight, now rest peacefully. God speed. Love to Marike, Donnelly, and all the family. Heartfelt condolences, from Otto and Denise Spruyt.

Odette and Alan

November 15, 2023

You will be greatly missed by all of us, Donn. Thanks for your love and care for your extended family and friends over the years. Love from Odette Alan Joe and Gabe

Christine belcher

November 15, 2023

The Belcher family, neighbours of Donn and Marieke, wish to pass our condolences to Marieke and Donns family and friends at this time. Our sincere condolences to you all. Donn was a wonderful gentleman. It has been a pleasure to be his neighbour.

Penny and Graham

November 14, 2023

Dear Brendon and Jane,
Graham and I send you our love and sympathy. We are thinking of you at this time.
Penny Ockleston

Dick & Sue Watson

November 14, 2023

Our condolences and love to the De Silva Family.

Dick & Sue Watson

Vincent de Silva

November 12, 2023

Farewell Donn, you were a great brother and friend. You were an ideal role model to family and friends. You live on in your children and their offspring. Vincent.

Bob and Wendy Wheeler

November 11, 2023

Hi Marieke We are sorry to hear of Donns passing Our thoughts are with you
Bob and Wendy Wheeler

Denise De Silva

November 10, 2023

Farewell my beloved, older brother. I shall miss your kind and caring and supportive presence.
May you rest in peace. Your sister Denise

November 15, 2023

DE SILVA, Gerard Donn (Donn). Our family's loving champion, we will miss you every day. You have guided us whether near or far and your positive outlook has helped shape our lives in so many ways. We are forever grateful for the support you have given us and we will cherish our memories of you forever. You have earned your peaceful rest. From your loving family Jeremy, Denise, Georgia and Stephanie.

November 13, 2023

DE SILVA, Gerard Donn (Donn). Heartbroken at the loss of such an amazing man, mentor, Dad, Father in Law, Grandad and friend. We have such admiration and pride for how you lived your life and lead by example. During these last years, you fought with such determination to ensure you were still there for family, which was the most important thing to you. We are so thankful for the time we had with you, making memories and listening to your stories and advice. Rest in peace now, free from pain. We may not see you for ears and ears but we'd still nose ya. Love you. Gareth, Ange, Belle, Soph, Harry and Leo xxxxxx

November 14, 2023

DE SILVA, Gerard Donn. Passed away on 7th November 2023. A treasured friend to me and loved father to our sons. We have been truly blessed and now bless you as you set out on the next part of your journey. You will be in our hearts and our conversations and we will make you known to our young ones who are to come - you will not be forgotten. Patricia (Trish).

November 11, 2023

de SILVA, Gerard Donn. Extraordinary father and grandfather. He built a family and a business with integrity and love. The fruits of his labours were reinvested in the extended family and allowed it to flourish in every sense. You are dearly missed by your son Russell, daughter in law Anita, and grand daughters Lovina and Katya. Rest in eternal love.

November 14, 2023

DE SILVA, Gerard Donn. Passed peacefully at home on Tuesday night in the presence of his devoted wife Marieke, his children, and family members. DONN1: You epitomised the '1' - you guided each and every one of us beautifully as only the head of our clan could do. Because of your love, wisdom, and acuity, we can carry your legacy forward. Sincere thanks to all of the medical people who have cared for Donn over recent years, especially Drs. Samad Iwaz, Madhu Koya, and Simon Fu. Time now to Rest in Peace darling Donn.

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Memorial Events
for Gerard DE SILVA

Nov

15

Service

2:00 p.m.

Allely Estate

Kumeu, Auckland