Frederick BARNES Obituary

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
Clare Harner

Condolences and much love Laura to you and the family. So sad to hear of Fred's passing. A dear and longtime friend to the Middleton family (Evelyn, Brian, Robyn & Sandra). Such a huge loss. xx

My life is richer for knowing you Fred. You lived life supporting those around you. You will always be in my heart. ❤Diane Barnes

My whole New Zealand story started 10 years ago, with the words "if you come on to my deck, you will have a way better view"
It feels like somebody ripped a part of new Zealand out of my heart
You will be missed ❤❤

Fred...Only called you Dad for my first few years but you were still always there in the background of my life. Never caught up often but always interesting when we did. Can still feel your strong hug, hear your voice and laugh...
With your huge personality I could never imagine you fading away in your twylight years, so in your typical sense of style, you had to go out with a bang!!
Party on...don't fight with Curt...Love to you both. XOX Antania

Heartfelt thoughts go out to all of your family at this sad time. Regard Cathy (Moss) and Des Taylor.

It's been a wonderful journey that has dodged some speeding tickets the odd bounce off incident and now parked against the kerb. Some wonderful experiences met wonderful people and now able to catch up with old mates. Farewell my buddy and enjoy the rest of the journey, albeit on foot. Our deepest condolences to Laura, Antania, Frederick, Mark, and all his extended family. From the Bethell whanau.