Finn LOWERY Obituary

Dear Finn - your Dida by your side now, both of you playing up! Love from the Burrows/Covic family.

I knew Finn for a brief period in the UK. The man had a heart of gold. I am deeply saddened to see his no longer here, but I'm glad he made the world a lighter place, despite the dark.

Dear Lowerys,

My families and I are saddened about the guy that I almost met 5 years ago. We were leaving Devonport until we bumped into you folks. It was great to see families about on the Queen's birthday weekend.

What's important is the network between families and friends like me. It's each other. We know how we can connect with each other, work with each other, and care with each other.

It is confronting to see what has happened to someone who lost its future. Today, as I'll always remember him, he'll always be with us.

Na roto I te whakapono, me te aroha, kia kaha.
Through faith and love, be strong.

Nice to meet you Finn.

Dear Sam, Anna, Martin and the Lowery family,

I am so sorry for your loss. I first heard Bronagh talking about Sam's brother Finn years ago. His speech at Bronagh and Sam's wedding was a highlight of that day - funny and loving. He was obviously a very special man from a wonderfully close caring family who did a huge amount of good in his time here. May we all try to follow his lead in putting out as much good as we can. With deepest sympathies and love, Méabh. xxx

Martin, Anna, Sam, Tom, Sophie and Family,
I met Finn once time and I have a such great memory about him. He was so nice and lovely and a good french speaker ! I don't have any words. Just know that you are in my thoughts at this saddest of times.
I am sending you lots of love.

I knew Finn playing waterpolo in Spain... He also left his mark here... He was an exceptional personal... all my condolences for the family..

Finn you will be dearly missed by everyone who ever met you. Chris and I were devastated to hear the news of your passing. I have such fond memories of our friendship at Rangitoto College and always looked up to you. Your smile was contagious and everyone always loved being around you.I know we haven't been touch for years but I always enjoyed seeing your adventures and travels on facebook. I send my love to your family, wife Rebecca and friends. xx

Very sad to hear of Finn's passing. He was a wonderful caring guy. Can't believe he is gone. Fond memories at school. Will never forget him and his great smile.

Julia.

Anna, Martin, Sophie and family,
I just wanted to say how incredibly sorry I was to hear from Jill of the death of Finn. Though I don't know you well, and didn't meet Finn, nevertheless I feel deep sorrow for your devastating loss.
Jill invited me to attend the service yesterday, and it was a real privilege to be there. That he was truly a wonderful, much loved young man showed in every speech. That such a life could be cut short by depression is tragic beyond comprehension. The way you spoke of it was courageous and inspiring.
I don't have any words of wisdom to offer, but know that you're in my thoughts at this saddest of times. Sending you much love.

Dear Lowery and Mrkusic families. We wanted to express what an honour it was to be present at Finn's funeral yesterday. The size of the overflowing crowd was yet another testimony to how much he was loved and cherished. The tributes were heartwarming, inspiring, funny and very moving. Finn's bright star is not diminished but will continue to shine through the gifts he shared with so many. May his memory be for a blessing.

I feel such a deep sorrow for you all, Kerry, Steve, Anna and Martin and your lovely families. My warmest and heartfelt wishes are with you at this dreadful time.

Sincerest condolences to your family. Words simply arent enough.
I knew Finn for a short time when I was Director of Sport at Rangitoto College. He was an impressive, gifted young man with so much talent and heart. A true Leader and wonderful role model.
Wishing you all the very best at this tragic time.

Finn will be truly missed. What an amazing person with an amazing family. It was a pleasure for me to get to know him and your family. May he rest in peace xxxx

Dear Anna, Martin and family,

We are so sorry to hear of Finn's tragic death - he took Spanish classes at Oxford with our son Ben, also a Rhodes scholar but we were unaware of the link we have as parents, old friends and flatmates until we saw Finn's obituary. Ben is currently studying in Beijing and remembers Finn as one of the kindest and most inspiring people he has met. He will be watching the Rhodes House live-stream of Finn's funeral tomorrow. As parents our hearts go out to you, and also to his wife Rebecca.

Arohanui,

Philippa Youard and Cliff Abraham

Only knew you a short time and wish I'd known you longer but you left an indelible impression. So sad that you are gone. Deepest condolences to the family for such a tragic loss

To Anna, Martin, Sophie and all the Mrkusic Lowery family,
We are saddened to hear of Finns passing. He was a talented young boy when we met him through waterpolo and to hear of his many achievements is not surprising. May his short time here with all the amazing things he did bring you some comfort.
Our deepest condolences to you all
Steve,Denise, Blake and Logan Cowan

Dear Anna and Martin
We are shocked to hear of the recent loss of your dearly beloved son. Please accept our deepest sympathy over this devastating news. Our hearts go out to you with love. Bev & Geoff Laurent

Dear Anna, Martin and family

No words can express our sadness at hearing the news of Finn's death. We only met him as a small boy, but have followed his progress and that of the rest of the family through Christmas letters. We remember our time as neighbours in Dunedin all those years ago and have always treasured those memories. Depression is a cruel illness and we are so sorry to hear that it has touched your family in the worst way.

With much love and our deepest sympathy.
Tian and Elizabeth Oei

Finn was an exceptional sportsman and mentor to young water polo athletes, and the wider water polo community- it was an honour to know him and have him poolside and in our lives- a big heart felt hug and all our love goes to his family, friends and team mates from the entire Water polo community where he made such a positive impact on all of his Polo Mates. Proud to be your friend, always- Kia Kaha Waitoa ..Be Strong Water Warrior.

To Sam, Anna, Martin and the rest of the Lowery family,
I was so desperately sorry to hear of the tragic passing of Finn. I only met Finn once at Bronagh and Sam's wedding, and in that short meeting, it was clear that he was a special guy. His love for his brother and family radiated from him and his wit and humour and confident delivery of his rap' and speech, had the whole congregation hung on his every word. He seemed like the life and soul of the party and I am so deeply sorry that his party has been cut so tragically short, by the cruelty of mental illness.
With my deepest sympathies and much love to you all, Claire Collins

Finn was someone you never forgot. We both worked at the Courts when he was with the PDS in Auckland. He was also at Auckland Law school with one of my daughters. I am very sad to hear of his passing and wish to send my sincere condolences to his wife and family. He was a true, kind young man who always thought of others and this was clearly reflected in his work as a defence lawyer. Although he has left us, his brilliance and memory will not be forgotten. May he rest in peace - Pocivao u miru.

Reading this devastating news in the Herald this morning has left a hollow feeling all morning & though we didn't know Finn well personally we know how much you adored him Anna & Martin...your pain feels tangible to us all as parents ,but we can only imagine the huge gap left forever in your lives.Our heartfelt sympathy to you all at this saddest of times, you are in our thoughts.

Beyond my words, Finn is such a blessing for all of us. He is an inspiration, a great friend, and a very kind human being. God bless him.

Dear Martin, dear Anna, we are so sad to hear of Finn's passing. Our hearts reach out to you, our love and thoughts are with you at this most difficult time.

I was really sad to hear this news. On my first day at Oxford Finn was assigned to welcome me and transition me in. I remember months later thinking I don't know what I would have done without his kindness and help on that day. What seems so trivial right now... upon arrival to my dorm, the academic office said I could not move in because there was a mix-up of dates. Finn wrote to me on a sticky note while we were standing in the office to stand my ground and demand that the room be ready, as he was certain there was something that could be done. He waited with me, carried all of my bags to the dorm, and was smiling and laughing all along the way. We had a long conversation on the walk to the dorm, and I was so happy to be welcomed and helped by someone so caring. Later that week I saw him at the mixer for students in the Department of Social Policy. I remember I made a joke about being so tired and not dressed for the occasion, and he reminded me about my strong character. In such little time, he took ample notice in who I seemed to be and was so nice and welcoming. There are people you meet, sometimes only briefly, who remind you of the good energy necessitated to give to the world. Last month I bought someone a cup of coffee who had helped me transition into Oxford. After paying for the coffee I told this person that he and Finn were two people who made me feel so welcomed in Oxford and truly aided in my transition. I often point to him when I think about that first week in Oxford. It is the little things that represent who a person is, and Finn was attentive to those little things. Sending so much love to his wife, whom he frequently talked about, as well as the rest of his family. Much love bro. I hope you rest easy.

I am beyond devastated to learn of Finn's passing. Finn epitomized humility, excellence, and most importantly, kindness. His smile lit up the room and his genuine zest for all facets of life was contagious. It is a gross understatement to say the legal community, New Zealand, and the world, lost one of its brightest stars. My deepest sympathies are with Finn's family and loved ones. I am thinking of you all. My heart breaks.

Anna there are no words to express my sadness for you at the loss of your beautiful boy. My dear friend I am sending my deepest sympathy and love. Thinking of you so dearly and sending my love Sandra xx

LOWERY, Finn Henry Mrkusic (Finn). Passed away on March 24, 2019. Great grandson of late Amoa and Jock Dunleavy, treasured grandson of Kerry (nee Dunleavy) and Steve Mrkusic, revered great nephew of Dunleavys: Terry Snr, late Trish (Broadley) and Michael (Marist Brother Richard), sweet cousin of their combined whanau whanui. Aroha nui to Finn's adoring wife Rebecca, his grandmother Joy, his loving parents Anna (nee Mrkusic) and Martin Lowery, and to his siblings Sam, Tom and Sophie. Fly, free spirit fly to the clouds of the heavens Transformed by the sun All doubts swept away All restraints cast down Yes all restraints are cast down Moe mai ra e tama Pocivaj u miru