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Barbara UPTON Obituary

UPTON, Barbara Shona. In loving memory of Barbara Upton. With deep sadness we announce the passing of Barbara on the 6th December 2024. The beloved wife of John, devoted mother of Elizabeth and Philippa and cherished mother-in-law to John and Chaz. Barbara and John's love story spanned over 50 beautiful years, a journey defined by unwavering trust, enduring love and lifelong friendship. Together they wove a legacy of values - love, kindness and loyalty - that will continue to shape and inspire their family for generations to come. Barbara was deeply proud of her grandchildren - Jackson, Xavier, Elliott and Ranger - who filled her life with happiness and laughter. Her nurturing spirit, thoughtful wisdom and gentle kindness will forever be a guiding force in their lives. Barbara was a woman of grace, strength and compassion. Her kindness touched many and she leaves behind a legacy of love that will be treasured forever. Honoring her wishes, a private family ceremony will be held at her favorite place, Langs Beach, to celebrate the life of a woman who will be sorely missed every day. 'How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard'



Published by The New Zealand Herald from Dec. 7 to Dec. 11, 2024.

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Ivan Nobilo

December 18, 2024

To John and Family
Our thoughts are with you at this sad time, we can only imagine how much you will miss your lovely Barb. Happy memories of times spent together when we were all young. Ivan and Judy Nobilo

Paul glenn-campbell

December 14, 2024

Our condolences to John and family. Barb was always fabulous to work with and will be missed.

Luciano Canestri

December 12, 2024

Dear John I'm sorry that you have lost your lovely Barbara. It was very nice to see you both recently.

Gary Alway

December 11, 2024

One of a kind, genuine, caring always there for others. Mrs Upton is just awesome & I will miss our catch ups at Waihi Beach. She certainly leaves a fantastic legacy. Love to you all.

Mary England

December 11, 2024

Love to you John, Pip, Liz & family,

I will always remember you all together as the four musketeers buzzing around the shops & Barbara looking on proud of the families achievements!

Another star in the sky shining down on us all, never forgotten always talked about as living on in loving precious memories.

Mary England

Brian Mason

December 10, 2024

Grief, especially for those closest to us, can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and John today and always. You were a special person in our lives and will continue to be in my memories.

Jane cherry

December 9, 2024

So sorry to hear of Barbara´s passing. Such a lovely, kind lady. Lots of memories of shopping at Franklins shoe shop in Whangarei during the 90´s. Thinking of John and family during this very sad time.

Carol, Andrew and Susannah Walker

December 8, 2024

A wonderful cousin and friend for over 70 years, so sadly missed. It is hard to believe the phone won't ring anymore as we caught up with the news, shared the memories, enjoyed the laughs. Farewell Barb, and thank you for being you. Love to you John, and Pip, Liz, John, Chaz, Jackson, Xavier, Elliot and Ranger.

Roger and Deirdre Marbeck

December 8, 2024

Dear John and Family
Very saddened to hear of Barbs passing. She certainly was a ray of sunshine and may those rays keep shining for you all in her memory
Love to you all

Monique Taylor Harris

December 7, 2024

Auntie Barb,
Forever will I Cherish the memory of June 6th this year, when I visited you & Uncle John with My Mum and Dad.
Along with many more wonderful lifelong memories:
Every Summer @ Jack n Jill Camp, Days out in the Boats, Labour Weekends in Whangarei, and more recently your lunches at Tribeca.
Heartbroken for the loss of you, such a Beautiful Lady at Peace with Your Angels now.

All of my Love and thoughts with you Uncle John, Philly and Lizzie. John and Chaz, Jackson, Xavier, Elliot and Ranger.

Always Molly, Richard and Luca

Pauline Gill

December 7, 2024

Barbara was the beloved granddaughter of the late Jessie(nee McGregor) & Walter Tucker, the beloved niece of the late Isobel & Noel Franklin & the late June & Wallace Redwood. Loved & deeply cherished & loving, caring cousin & friend of Pauline Gill. After a courageous battle with cancer borne with quiet courage, dignity & grace may dear Barbara now Rest in Peace. Treasured memories and remembered with love, always. Our sincere & heartfelt condolences to John, Phillipa, Elizabeth & families.
Roger & Pauline Gill

Barbara Langguth

December 7, 2024

I am so sorry to hear that Barb has passed away. Have known her for many years. All my condolences to the family especially to you John as you will miss her terribly. All my love Barb Langguth

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